HE IS MORE THAN A FRIEND

A picture of me and my friend some years back

There is this saying that says show me your friends and i will tell you who you are. In life friends also makes you who you are or determine who you might be in future and that is why we need to know the kinds of friends we are having, the friends you make today will be what your children will talk about tomorrow either you are successful in life or not you will definitely have a friend that is supporting you or leading you to astray, God create us and allow us to meet people it now depends on us the kinds of people we meet and we call our friends.

Me as a person i have met with alot of people that i like and i know but then i do not call them my friends because the word friend is a very strong word , there are some attributes and characteristics of friends that you will look into before you can call someone my friend but so many people doesn't look at it and that is why they get heartbroken by their friends.
Before we move further let look at what makes someone a friend.

1. Loyalty
   A friend must be loyal to the cure your, friends must be able to stand for you and not stand against you, he or she must be able to fight for you at your back and not back bite you.

2. Trustworthy
   Another attributes of your friend is trust in all ramifications your friend must be able to trust you to the extent that he will be able to confront anyone because of your matter.

3. Supportive
   This is most important in everything I've been discussing, your so called friend must be supportive in everything you are doing in life both financial and physical support.

4. Respectful
   A good friend will respect your opinion and everything you are doing, a good friend will respect everything around you even with your family.

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You see everything i have explained up there makes someone a friend although we have more attributes than this but then your friends must portrait some of this attribute and that makes me remember the first day i met my close friend, it's happens that i like her Junior sister who is now a mother 😂 well that was like 14 to 15 years back his name is @qidos this guy never smile for once 😂 his face is always up and since i like his sister I'm looking for a way to talk to him and be my friend that year 😂 to cut the long story short i tried to approach this guy so he can accept me as his friend and also i can call him in-law 😂 lols is that not funny 😂 well I'm unable to do that just on a very good day I was with her and he saw us together that's me and the sister then she do the introduction he spoke to me nicely and from there we start talking. Well he his funny than i can even think of but his face is strong 😂.

A picture of my friend

To cut the long story short after our first meeting we have spent more years together even though nothing later happens between me and his sister but then this my so called friend is everything to me we grew up and became the best friend ever he has always being a supportive friend to me in every single ways i found myself both financial and physical.. i could remember when i want to start my little business then he was the one that gathered money for me and said moremoney take this and find a way to start your business, i can't remember what this guy has done in my life because honestly he's everything i got and for once i have never let him down and i will never let him down. I wish is for us to live together in good health and wealth.

This is my little story about my friend and i hope you like my story. Welcome 🤗 to my blog have a nice day.

This interesting topic was given by @hive-learners to write on and you can check @kronias for more details about the topic and guildlines.

Note The two pictures in this story was taken by my brother with my phone and the the person in this story is the friend I'm talking about