I PUT MYSELF FIRST
For long i use to think because i don't have much money i should not enjoy myself or i should work very hard before i start going out to enjoy, honestly some years back when i see people going out to have fun or to enjoy themselves i use to see it as wasting of money but no, i was wrong i know because i lack the knowledge then, as time goes on day by day years after years i realized you don't have to be rich to appreciate yourself believe me i must say self love is very important infact self love should the priority in everything we might want to do first this is because this time doesn't wait for no one i see people dying at early age without achieving anything leaving all the luxuries here on earth and yet they did not enjoy when they are alive that's sad.
Some of us are really trying because we are not born with a silver spoon so we are trying all our possible best to get one honestly I'm one of those people some of us do 2, 3, 4. Work together just because we needed to eat or to make it big in life 💯 and we forget to show love to ourselves i use to be someone like that in fact some times we forget that everything got his or her own time we just keep working like a matchine.
I stop being a jack of all trade and start showing more love to myself in a nutshell i start focusing on my self more and more and i try to find happiness in everything little things I'm doing
I start appreciating the little things i do not until i have big things before i show love to myself so i start appreciating my self more happiness comes for being contented with what you have and stop looking at what other people have.
I start going out more to have fun before i hadly even go out to have fun but now not anymore i make sure i go out more and more as at last year to this year i can't count how many times i have gone out before i use to save all my money and i do not look like i work at all, don't misquote me i do not say saving is not good but you need to spend on yourself or you will look like you are suffering. Just this January i have gone out to have fun like two times not to talk of last year and ever since I've been doing this i do not regret it i must say
A picture of me taken with my phone
I spend moremoney on food I realized you do not have to look like what you are going through in life if not anything then i don't for a single seconds jokes with food lol 😆 lately when i realized that we can leave the so called world at anytime and left everything behind i have start eating all kinds of good food , once i crave or like any food I'm going for it no time and of course I'm a good cook , just because i love food i meet with a lady that taught me how to cook some delicious meal and i must say I'm good at it.
I take care of my own body i show love to myself i buy whatsoever my baby might need to look good starting from good clothes, body spray, cream and any other thing that can make me good, this is because people even respect you more when you take care of yourself.
In conclusion selflove is extremely important and can not be overemphasized because you have to take care of yourself anyways and if you refused to show love to yourself your body will tell so why not show love to yourself and look pretty good to me I'm always happy and i even feel comfortable and happy showing love to myself so this are the little things i do for myself to make myself happy.
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The second picture in this story is my picture and i took it with my phone
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Omo spend the money jor, I’m glad you realized that you need to treat yourself with some special things and you don’t have to wait to be rich before you can do so.
Omo did I just hear that you have gone out like twice this year, I don’t think I can actually count how many times I have gone out this January 😂😂😂, don’t mind me jor, enjoy yourself
Ho baby yes we don't need to be rich before we show love to ourselves we just needs to be happy with whatever we have with us.
Thanks for stopping by dear
You’re welcome dear
Sometimes we have an idea that it would be a waste of money on certain things. However, whe we spend on the we realize that we were wrong.
Spending on one's well being is important. Balance is the key. Neither we should be deoriving us nor the expenses be limitless.
You are right in saying that life is very unpredictable. So we should enjoy it before we are buried inside the grave.
@moremoney have you thought of joining dreemport?
Hey I'm glad you came through my blog and yes you have said everything.
I'm on dreemport i just registered this year but I've not start doing anything on it i would not mind if you can put me through
Do you have any difficulty using Dreemport? I mean why haven't you tried using it yet?
Of there is any query, I am here to answer 🙂
My brother you don't need all the money in the world to pamper yourself oo.
Just cut out a little from what you got to hang out once in a while.
Exactly dear , we just need to be happy with the little we have.
Thanks for stopping by
Going out to have a nice time is never easy of money at all but one must know his limit.
The truth is most of us go through tough times checking where we came from but I am so glad you realized that your body is crucial too and you started giving it what is right for it. Most times it is lack of appreciation that causes self hate, that moment we began feeling we are not what we ought to be, when are giving what is need and the like from there something else comes inn
Sometimes i will be sick and not even spend on myself meanwhile I'm working I'm happy i realized all this earlier
Thanks for stopping by my brother
That sick something happens to me too o, sometimes my mom or friends have to scold me first. If not the money would be there but spending it is a problem yet I don't stop working to pay attention to my health as well.
Well like you said, it's a privilege that you discovered it earlier , atleast you can change and enjoy a better life .
You are welcome my boss 🤗
It's not an easy task to care for oneself especially when we get too busy to make ends meet but then, who will enjoy all you're working for if you don't care for yourself now?
So enjoy yourself while you work, it's important you do.
I like that appreciation aspect you added, big things come from little things so we've got appreciate them first before the big things come to us 😊
You're looking good in that last picture 🥰 my Moremoney hehe
Since you also agree with me why don't you come and take care of your baby then or you want your baby to be suffering 😉
Thanks for stopping by dear ☺️
My baby is taking very good care of himself already 😊
Your baby needs you more this time around oo so answer your baby ASAP
Please come baby needs some care
wow moremoney is spending more money on himself hahaha well why we are earning ? just to make ourself satisfied and in my opinion that satisfaction is self-love.
Thanks for sharing your views on it!!!
Yes oo moremoney also want moremoney so he can spend well on himself 😂 you have said it all my brother 😊 it good to have you stay by on my post
If moremoney doesn't spend more Money on himself who would?😁😁😁
I dey feel you bro, its not necessary to be a millionaire before taking care of oneself, the little we have a can go long than we expect and the joy that comes from within is always satisfying.
See the way you are pulling my legs 😂 ok dear thanks so much let spend the money together lols 🤣
Wow... Jack of all trade indeed. It will drain you of all joy because you will constantly be working and you won't seem to be making any headway. Good a thing you decided to quit it.
Thank you for sharing this with us.