Should i say I'm used to being rejected or rejection is a stepping stone for me to achieve better
Life is always better and sweet when everything is going on as planned not until we get rejected. You know how sad it is when you get rejected 😢, maybe in a relationship, business, contract, life and so on. it's not everyone can move on easily some gave up while some move on . Well here is my own story about rejection.
Before i became a Tae-kwon-do coach I've gone to several schools and got rejected because they don't really value sport expecially martial arts Tae-kwon-do to be precised.
Honestly i could not count how many schools I've tender my proposal to just because i want to teach them tea-kwon-do, I've definitely lost count as i can't even remember again because it's many. So many times I've gotten tired 😴 but then no matter how tired I'm i still have to be on my feet and keep going this is one of the discipline i learnt in taekwondo 🥋 which is called no pain no gain, no gain no success
Most of the school head masters saying what if their students start fighting each other and no tae-kwon-do is more than fighting because it will teach you respect, discipline, self defense, the art, love, perseverance, self control and so on. No matter how i explain most of them doesn't seems to understand.. I just realized maybe I've to pass through all this text anyways. After a long trial i stopped.
I believe when you are tired you can rest and not give up ☺️ so i decided to start from my main school after I've thought over it so i give it a trial by selling my self out and meet people in my school, yeah the plans work out and i started with just one person and gradually the number of my students increase more and more.. although i still want more and better offer but i always believe given up is not the best in as much you are moving even if it is just with one step 🪜 yes a Rome wasn't built in a day so i believe so much in my self.
Here are some beautiful pictures of my students and I'm proud i made it this far..
June 26 2022 . I met with this charming damsel after chatting for so many months online, well we met in a WhatsApp group where i was busy telling people to vote for me for the most handsome in my school yes i use to be very handsome back in school lol 🤣 but now it's sapa all over me. Her message pop up on my screen saying hello handsome can i have your pictures before i vote for you? Well i send my pictures to her and from there we started as friends until June 26 2022. We decided to meet in Ibadan at agodi garden to be precised. Less i forget that will be the first time we will seeing each other, she has been waiting for me for almost an hour because I'm staying in Lagos ☺️ i was hold up by little traffic 🚦. To cut the long story shot i got to Ibadan after 3hours journey i enter agodi garden and saw her , common i was mesmerized by her beauty 😍 and yes i wasn't bad too.
Yes you can see how cute I'm 😂 we talk and we end it there ☺️ but then we are still crushing on each other after she later found out that I'm a fresh graduate and i don't have a good job I'm doing presently. She doesn't think about it too much she just sent me a message on WhatsApp, Saying i should get a job and the relationship can't work out because I'm not giving her money.😢
that words alone makes me very sad, i was sad honestly, very sad 😞 i mean i could not believe i was rejected because I'm not financially bouyant 😢 because I'm a fresh graduate and doesn't have a tangible work I'm doing yet.
Moving on is something I'm always used to because I'm a bit strong i use to say que sera sera, whatever will be will definitely be it's not easy for me though but I've moved on, i see the rejection as a motivation ☺️ and what will push me to do better in life so as usual I'm just going to smile and move on meanwhile i will keep working hard so to make it big in life.💯
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😂😂😂😂 Girls with money, no one can separate them but I believe if she truly loves you, she won't even give the excuse of you not giving her money. Though, money is good but it doesn't measure true love in a relationship.
Some schools are actually afraid of your skill in teaching their pupils because their mentality is that such skill can be taken advantage of by using it to fight and act wicked but it's more than that especially you explaining the aims of Tae-Kwon-Do.
At least you never gave up and you have some students which is a proof of your resilient spirit.
Omor the story long pass how i summarized it oo.. I never said I'm not going to do it for her oo but then been a fresh graduate i have to put things in place but i don't think she wants to understand..is not as if I'm doing yahoo or bad things to make money I'm only doing what i can do and you know Nigeria most things are not appreciated but then we are trying.. no ladies want to suffer with any nigga so i better leave the relationship and work on my self.
As for the school i understand their perspective but then i guess they are not well oriented about the game .
Thanks for stopping by it means alot to me.
Hehehe. She had assumed being a fresher, you won't have money to take care of her but she had to have understood you then. For me, once I see a man is not lazy and doing his best, I am okay.
You are right but not all ladies will understand this o my sister.. it pains but then it is well.
Thanks for coming by i really appreciate it.
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STOPChai! Lol.. bro.. I’m so sorry about your rejection experience, but it made me laugh (no vex boss). See enh girls nowadays want money they didn’t work for. One of my friends also experienced something like this. The girl said “I know my megalith is messed up, but I’m sticking to it. I cannot date a guy and still be broke”.
They have all see relationship as financial services lols 😂 this thing pain me gan ooo honestly but no problem I'm fine lol 🤣..
Thanks for stopping by brother it means alot to me.
You have had a really tough time facing rejection especially when you were looking for a place to teach. It's not always easy doing something over and over and keep getting a no for an answer, sometimes we just have to stop and take a deep breath and make another plan just like you did and got a result.
That girl rejected you so you will become the Ayobami that you are today, the truth is if she had agreed to date you, you wouldn't have made it this far because you will have to spend on her whether you like it or not. She did you good but of course that surely hurts.
Keep getting better and moving on and you will he fine, when rejection comes accept it and know that it's time to move to the next stage.
My baby don talk o 💕 there's alot of hope in your message thanks for the words of encouragement and I've over come them all. Thanks once again.
Smiles, that's a really nice way to say it, you are making me blush here oo 🥺😳, I'm happy my words could bring hope to you, I'm here after all, hehehe.