Know Your Worth, Know Your Environment, Protect Yourself

Over the past week, there has been an issue circulating on Ghanaian social media.This whole issue revolves around a lady and her partner. Apparently, they were caught in their car doing the act by a group of men- I mean why would someone be concerned about someone doing their own thing in their car.

But hey, the story doesn’t end tell. Tell me why the man is asked to pay some money and gets to go while the lady is bench harassed and abused by these men. To make matters worse, her videos were posted on social media. I’m not a lawyer and I’m not here to judge anyone. But common sense isn’t really as common as we think it is because how would someone in their right mind leave their partner to be abused this way by people they don’t even know.

This story is one every one of us ladies must and should learn from, especially we the young ones. Not every man deserves your time because it takes a real man to stand by you and protect you. People out there speculate this whole situation was a planned one but only the parties involved know the truth. The system doesn’t work for us as women everywhere. Know who you are, what you’re looking for, know your environment , protect yourself and act right as a lady. Because as women, we are very vulnerable, and so we must make sure to protect ourselves and stand up for each other and what is right.

As a lady, your safety is very important because people will try to use your vulnerability as a way to manipulate you. So, learn to stay vigilant, smart and sharp. The world isn’t really safe out there. As there is good, there is bad. Just make sure to be on the good side at all times because Spider-Man won’t always be there to save you.

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