A FUTURE WELL PLANNED

I will be approaching this topic using myself as the case study here, not necessarily because I got it right but because now, I know better, hopefully, you might learn one thing or two as my audience from this talk today.

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WHY THIS TOPIC?

The reason is not far-fetched 👌 it's basically due to my life experiences so far as an adult, and as a parent who has seen both the difficult and good sides of life.

A future well-planned should begin as early as possible, okay let me say latest, immediately after one graduates from primary school and is about to enter high school. However, at this stage in life, a guide is needed for the child or children in question. Guide on choosing whether the person should go for science or Art subjects depending on your evaluation of the person's academic performance on subjects. This particular decision will also determine the course of study when the person is set to enter the university. By now, I believe you have seen why I said earlier that planning for the future starts immediately after one's primary school.

Having said that, it is also important that you consider choosing a course in the university that will likely give you a good job after study even though securing a job in your area of specialization is not guaranteed in our world today but who knows what the future holds🤷.

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Now from my experience, a lot of people especially ladies have this marriage mentality once they are in the university. Some people strive to gain admission to secure a good husband for themselves instead of studying with a good future in view. Funny enough, I have seen people who drop out of the university once they get married while still at the university.

Before getting into marriage whether you are a man or woman, financial plans are highly recommended at least to give your children a good life...I missed this before I got married and I have been struggling to try to meet the needs of my children and not rely on my husband alone.

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Making adequate financial plans for the future at an early stage is what everyone should consider. I remember seeing some of my classmates in the university back then engaging in business while still in school. I didn't think in that direction even when I had the opportunity to. This set of people made cool money and invested some and I was only watching and focused on my study alone. Some of them also discovered crypto then and were learning it, researching about it, and investing from their pocket money gradually. Jude, my classmate made 19 million naira from crypto just a few months after our graduation, and today, he already has landed properties in the city where he resides. I still remember the little money he invested in one of the coins then that changed his life positively today.

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If I had known, I would have begun my future journey right from time, if I had the right info I needed and the kind of info I have now, I would have made some decisions right, and maybe by now, I wouldn't be struggling financially. Well, the good side is that while I am striving to put things right, I am using my mistake to teach my children. Making millions in the early twenties should be the goal. Gone are the days when we put marriage at the top list before finances. This reminds me of the discussion I had with @starstrings01 the other day, his financial plans before marriage boils down to securing a good future for his future wife and children and becoming wealthy 🤑 and not only rich..lolz. I remember telling my younger sister to set a financial standard before getting into marriage and making money is a great requirement, you will need it in that marriage to make things easier for you. Of course, two heads are better than one. When a man and a woman in a marriage are financially capable, the children will be given a good life and I am sure that is the desire of every parent.

Let's talk about securing assets for your children...

Do you know that some smart people start buying assets for their future children even while still single? Some open a bank account for their kids before or after arrival and start saving for their needs. This is a part of the good plan we should consider. This can only be achievable if we set that goal so early and work towards it. I respect some people, they are just too intentional while planning for their future. Marriage is good, so nice but it becomes sweeter when you plan very well for it ahead of time.

What of retirement plan?

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If you devote your time and energy as a youth, working hard, seeking more financial ideas, and investing properly, my dear...you might start enjoying your retirement as early as possible. Have you wondered why some people at age 60 still toil daily trying to make ends meet? Even when they are supposed to be resting and taking things gradually? I think it's due to inadequate planning at the early stage or perhaps there weren't privileged. Whichever way, we should be intentional while planning for our future and it starts now!

This post was inspired by the #hivelearners second edition contest on the topic titled a 15mins Talk on any topic of your choice.

These are my thoughts this morning and I do hope you picked one thing from me today🤗😍

Thanks for reading!!!

Remember, to keep staying positive and be happy 😊 🧡💖🥰😇

Bye!



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Good read. Financial education is important and should be learned far earlier then high school. Banks no longer give that earning yield so the best option is more then likely to creat a trust.

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Yea, financial education is important and once we are equipped with the right info, we can explore in any areas of our choices

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Wow! What an insight! Seriously, I can pick one or two things here and I am already preparing myself in some areas especially about finance. One thing I used to tell myself is that I don't want to be a liability to anyone even my husband.

My Dad and maternal grandmother have been disturbing about bringing a suitor 😅 just because they see I am a graduate. Will they help me run the home?

One thing is for someone to set it right now or never and I pity some people who are going into marriage just because they are graduates or of age. Marriage isn't as rosy as some sees it especially when you are going into it with the wrong mindset. You have to make the plans now.

As for me, I won't go into one if I am not sure of building a future for myself and children because I cannot bring those innocent lives to suffer. Thanks for this beautiful post.

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I don't want to be a liability to anyone even my husband.

This is it oo 💯👏👍

I wish many of our ladies have same mentality. Honestly, be financially okay and still have things giving you money before bringing those innocent souls to the world. Some people will say, why not give birth yet or why spacing my children so much as if they are the one to train them for me 😂. I made this mistake of having cash before marriage and now inside marriage, I am adding lots of strategies to compensate my mistake.

We move!!

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The mentality most of us had really affected the financial aspect of life. There is need to start early. Though some may say why the rush?? This is where some people end up discouraging others, but at this point, there shouldn't be any form of statements that should hold one back from trying. Crypto has been there to make little investments and get huge outcome in what we never expected, yet many still don't have the awareness or they don't believe in the future of crypto.

Living a wealthy and happy life is the best life everyone can think of. The time starts now. Not too late for everyone, time differs.

I did enjoy the read. Experience remains the best teacher.

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Awwwwwn 🥰
You got my point
Of course time differs
Whenever anyone wake up is his or her morning 😂
We will keep pushing...no room for slacking

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Whenever anyone wake up is his or her morning

😂😂😂😂
True talk ooo

We don't have to slack 💯

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Our youth is meant for us to plan ahead for when we would be old. At the same time, I can imagine how it is to be married and the struggle that would be needed to take care of a wife and child. So it is best that I struggle now than struggling twice as much when I am married.

One thing about some ladies is that they feel marrying a rich man is a shortcut out of poverty, so if you ask most ladies out there, which type of man would you like to marry? you would mostly get the reply: I want to marry a rich man.

I would say, marry someone who is just like you. For me, I want to marry a hard-working lady with a vision, a dream and goals to crush over.

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I would say, marry someone who is just like you. For me, I want to marry a hard-working lady with a vision, a dream and goals to crush over.

Damn well agree with you, but for this our generation e dey hard. I was thinking I had that time to see exactly this type, been looking since I was 20, it's a fairly take these days

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Damn well agree with you, but for this our generation e dey hard

I agree with you on this. I don't know if I should blame social media actually. Because what a lot of out girls do these days is just sit on their phones almost all day. If this generation is like this, I wonder what will happen in the next generation.

Our girls no longer want to work hard. A good number of them are looking for wealthy men to feast on thereby increasing immorality here and there.

I wish you well my friend😂

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I wish you well my friend😂

You sure say you wish me well? 😂😂😂

You're right, this generation, sometimes I'll be looking at myself and the chances I have. Nigeria no just be am. Fry pan to fire girls na them full everywhere.

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Hahaha 😂
Since you were 20 and till date you haven't gotten? Oh my gender don suffer 😂😂

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I don later see now, but she, (your niece) no gree for me. 😅😅😅

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Hahaha 😂😂😂
Vawlence 😂😂
Keep trying...push further, I believe she will agree..lolz

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The breakfast wey she gimme ehhh

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Really? 😂😂
But did you approach her...joke apart
Lol

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The Blockchain has ears ooo this matter no be blockchain matter ooo 😭😭😭

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I want to marry a rich man.

Of course, this is a fast answer to most ladies even when they have not worked on themselves but rather depend wholeheartedly on a man.

The bitter truth is that the money you saw in a man and wants to marry him might not be there tomorrow, so who then fills the vacuum?

Yeah, marrying a hardworking lady with the same dream and the same vision will make things easier for you.👍👌

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My financial decisions are like the best things I've done for myself. They may be little but they serve their purpose.

I think so many persons are buckling up on the area of financial security. Ladies are no longer in a hurry to get married without having something going for them. Nobody wants to write, 'dear Joro, hide my identity...'
And frankly, I like the obsession we have these days concerning our financial health.

Interesting read. Well-done Ma!

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Nobody wants to write, 'dear Joro, hide my identity
😂😂😂
Very funny 😄

They may be little but they serve their purpose.

I love this 👌

My dear, some ladies are coming on board already to financial security while some are still dwelling in the old mentality of my husband is rich
It's well oo
Thanks for stopping by 👍🤗

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Thanks for the blog! Surely Its a must-to-keep list to lead a better life and future

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Great post! Thanks for sharing your views about planning the future!
It's "easy" to write about this stuff, but when life happens, we have to react adequately and many times, we don't have too many choices to pick from... I mean, planning is great, but we should have at least 2-3 "backup plans"...

Making millions in the early twenties should be the goal.

I like this one! :) I remember my youth and starting with my first "jobs" even before finishing my school... I had that dream, but I didn't reach it back then... Unfortunately, it wasn't all in my hands and some "external things" messed up my plans... Now, in my mid-40, I'm trying to push hard and retire in my fifties... :)


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Yea, I understand that practically it's not that an easy peasy thing to do but it all starts with the mindset. When we position our mind first on what we really want, then other things will flow. Even if not exactly how we wanted it but at least to a large extent, there will be different.
Of course it's not totally in our hands but we still have a role to play.

Thank you so much for picking my post
Much appreciated 👍🤗

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word of wisdom nkem, unfortunately many youth of nowadays are threading the wrong path, investing in liabilities instead of asset, ask a youth what he will do with 1 million naira and the first thing that will come to his mind is iphone, some have wasted fortune that could make their wealthy into buying irrelevant things and that way forfeit the good life they are destined to have

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That's really a wrong path
Pleasure before work... error 😂
Thanks for coming around 👍

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This topic is wonderful and very educative. I have learned a lot from this and it's something I'll definitely take into consideration for future purposes.
Thank you @nkemakonam89 for sharing this. 🥰

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Wow
Glad you find it educative
I am happy you learnt something from me today 🤗
Thanks for stopping 👍👌

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I remember those days my elder brother used to tell me that without money marriage becomes a mirage, and faith is good as all have one place or the other.

The place of something should not be left for only man. It irritates me to see young ladies that are lazy some of them cannot do any meaningful thing side fixing themselves up which is not bad but irritates me.

I can not recall how many of them I volunteered to teach this online stuff but they refused to learn just because of laziness hmmmmmm.

And am glad to see young babes doing something meaningful and even those on this platform I admire them so much and wish I got such a privilege too, but in any way, as you said God helping us so our children will get it right.

Thanks for sharing this great insight

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Awwwwwn 🥰
My dear...the matter tire me sometimes
I also envy some ladies that Sabi good road on time but e go better for us las las
Thanks for visiting 👍😊❤️

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There is time for everything, the youth days is the time to take great steps in fulfilling our dreams. Thinking of marriage while in a higher institution is a mistake because many who went into it after school are still struggling to create a valance.

Financial Stability shouldn't be taken lightly and it can be achieved when we still have the strength of the youth.

Investing for our children is a fantastic idea and I think it is the best way to not just secure their future but ours as well.

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Wow... what a nice contribution here
Indeed, our financial stability should not be taken lightly and I hope youth gets to understand this one thing that I missed

As we are securing the future of our children, so to us as well
Thanks for this 😊👍

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It's all about planning. The curse of youth is having the belief that you have all the time in the world. You feel invincible and therefore time will stand still.
But eventually, we all will grow old. The foundations we lay now will determine the kind of future we will have.

Thank you for sharing this with us.

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The mentality that we have all the time has been a killer of many destiny. Even an adage says, make hay while the sunshine...that strong foundation is what we all need.
Thanks for reading Bruno 😊

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I am glad I came across this wonderful piece this morning.
Like I always tell ladies, get something doing before marriage and be financial independent to lessen the load on the poor man.

Just like you, I missed the opportunity of venturing into business during school days due to some silly principles I regret till date. However, my narrative is changed and I am climbing the ladder gradually.

A sister said something and I quote

After having Jesus, the next thing you should have is money.

I am pursuing this money like tomorrow no dey and I must grab it.

Thanks for sharing

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I really love that quote 😍😂😂😂
Very raw Truth
Jesus and money is a better combo 😂
Thanks for finding this topic interesting

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Hello there, Nkem.
I knew you’d talk about something like this. I was expecting you to talk about marriage, future, childcare, and all. But it seems you chose a very nice topic and brushed through other parts.

A future well planned. Indeed a very good topic. Right from when a child born, parents and guardians should start thinking about the child’s future. You said something about guiding a child to choose whether art or science.

Yes, guiding a child in that aspect is very important, and at the same time, a child shouldn’t be forced. Instead study your child and discover the hidden gifts in him.

You also talked about choosing a course in the university that’ll likely give you a job.. hmmm. The truth is no one know what the future holds (I’m glad you said this). And the country’s economy is messed up. God save us.

Parents and guardians even older siblings should help guide their kids/younger ones to a brighter future.

Thanks for sharing this amazing topic, Nkem.

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Favor don land 😂😂
Yea...the topic is vast...I was thinking of so many things at a time 😂😂
But this was what I was able to pen down
Thanks for finding the topic amazing 😍✅

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Hehe. I borrowed your jet.
You're welcome.

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Hahaha 😂
I am just landing oo 🛬🛬🛬
Got plenty comments to attend to
It's well today 😂😌

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I think every teenager have to read this post because it’s educating.

Sure we have to plan our life and be financially independent become thinking of getting married. As a lady if you don’t have your own money before getting married you will see shege because people won’t respect you and no matter how rich your husband is you will be frustrated too of not being able to do anything good for your family.

And please I think people have to have plans on the amount of kids they will give birth to. Like don’t give birth to many kids when you are financially buoyant to take care of them.

This is a nice topic and I will say I have learn some things from it😁.

I will come to you for marriage advice of any advice I might need😉😂

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Smiles 🥰
Thanks for bringing more insight on my post. There is a great need that ladies plan their finances before marriage.. infact lots of planning in other areas are needed.

Lolz.. feel free to come for advice
I can only give you from my experience 😂🥰👍

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This is beautifully written, I love how you input your life experiences into it... Well done💯💯

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Engaging in one thing or the other to really be stable financially would be amazing to be really independence
Reading from @dreemport

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This is amazing content, I hope everyone learnt from this, especially the ladies. We should all take our financial life seriously.
Many ladies are so entitled to their husbands, leaving all burdens for the innocent man.
We can do better, let's be serious with our life.

God bless you mama for this wonderful piece, you are amazing

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Exactly my dear
I wish we can all do well to start planning our future on time, with this there will be no pressure on men alone
Thanks for reading

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