My network of friends is a reflection of who I am
My network says a lot about me. They are my reflection; like-minded individuals who share a similar vision in life. I am blessed with an amazing circle of friends, both in real life and online. No man is an island; we need each other to succeed in life, but it becomes easier when you have those friends around you with a similar mindset.
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My circle of friends are success-oriented people who would push each other to their capabilities until they saw a significant positive change. They are the type that have proven their genuine friendship to me in my difficult phase of life. They are the type that encourages each other to remain positive no matter the raging storm. A lot of the time, I share with them what my family members aren't even aware of, and they are never disappointed. People that carry my burden as if it's theirs, and I do the same to them as well. Sincerely, it baffles me on the massive love these friends of mine usually display for me many times. I have asked myself several questions about whether I truly deserve all the love.
Being an extrovert, I have made a good number of friends, but that does not mean that my network is large. This is because not all friends we make stick with us for a long time; only the genuine ones do even when distance come into picture. Nevertheless, the ones who have stuck around have been supportive of my life generally. @amiableamara and @floraada have been such longtime friends of mine who have shown me nothing but unique love, care, concern, emotional support, financial support, parental ideas, spiritual support, etc. What more can I ask for in a friend, and why shouldn't I let them know that hive is changing lives by making sure that they register their presence in this space?
Flora, Amiableamara, and I
The above picture was taken during a chevron exhibition program here in Nigeria. When I got this 3-day contract job, I didn't hesitate to inform them about it, and our teamwork was massive throughout the program. I learned a lot from them as well. These are ladies of inestimable value, virtue-driven women, goal-oriented ladies who wouldn't let me remain stagnant in life... I love the way they push me. I love their vision to be great in life despite our gender, and I have been influenced positively by their nice attributes.
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I have other amazing friends who I may not showcase their images here, both the ones in a far distance, but trust me, the kind of circle I have got are golden friends who have inspired me to leave my comfort zone and pursue my goals without looking back. My virtual friends are not left out, and I can tell you that when choosing friends, I am usually intentional; our similarities and purpose in life bring us closer, if not we repel in no time.
Will my network have my back when times are bad?
I am certain they will. Now let me tell you what happened just yesterday and today. It's been a hectic week for me. Between yesterday and today, I went through an ugly experience that affected my mental health a bit, my online activities, etc., but then, the amazing friends I have made made the weight of my experience look so light. This is just 1/100 of what they have done for me in the past. There has never been a day that I experienced downtime that my circle of friends didn't come through for me. I wouldn't pray for a more difficult time, but with what they have shown me so far, I believe they will always have my back, and I will too whenever there is a need for that.
In summary, I will proudly say that I keep the right kind of friends; they are lovely and have been a blessing to my life.
How about you?
Who is in your circle of friends?
This post was inspired by the #hivelearners community contest on the topic titled Your social network
Please note the other pictures aside the thumbnail are mine
So these two good friends of yours are here on Hive. Wow. You people be looking like fresh graduates. So nice.
It'a a good thing that you gave such good people are you. I cannot imagine how certain things may have been without them.
Yes they are here on hive oo 😂
Freshness 😍👍...thank you Jay
I cannot imagine either...but glad I am a lucky one 😇😂
Thanks for reading Jay
Amazing. Friends are like family and they usually determine who we are. I am glad you were able to build a nice circle of friends.
There is nothing like having a group of people that share common goals with you, people you can rely on.
It is a good thing you brought them to hive. By the way, y’all look great in the picture.
You are right.. friends are like family and I am lucky to be surrounded with great ones
Thanks for the nice compliment lizi dear
Having good cycle of friends is one of the few best things that can ever happen.
Especially when everyone in the cycle share similar goals; which would become easier to plan, execute and achieve.
I will surely write about my cycle of friends too (I love the way you talked about yours)
Yea... having good friends around us is one of the best thing that can happen to anyone
I hope to read your friendship story as well
Nothing beats good friends in life.
Sorry about ya experience you had.. with time even the raging storm will get tired
Was a nice read
Hey bro.... it was an ugly experience
Another episode of seizure in the life of chisom
But I thank God for today
I have great friends around me..they always make things look easier for me
Thanks for coming through
Ou... I never knew
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One of the best thing that can happen to you is having a group of friends that always turn out for you when you need the most. You are very lucky to have them.
You are right my dear...good friends are like gold
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Having such influential friends is always profitable. As they have a thousand reasons to keep you active. But the fact that friends know more depth of us than our family sometimes annoys us. What if they don't prove their loyalty?
That's why a person like me keeps a lot of restrictions while doing "sharing is caring" in gossip, secrets and family issues. I wish your bonding flourish over time 💕
You are right, however things that are too sensitive isn't wise to share with them more than family members no matter how good they have proven to be. It all depends on what is been shared.
I appreciate your nice comment and contribution to my post 🥰😇
Our friend play a very important role in our life. A good friend always help us and they are the well wisher of us. Finding such kind of true friend in the current time seems difficult but it's not impossible. I think you are lucky having such kind of friend.
Yea..indeed it's difficult yet not impossible to find that kind of friends. I think I am one of the lucky ones regarding friendship
It's not impossible but it's not easy. But good thing is that you are lucky in this case and I am also lucky in this case.
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Omo! I finally meet someone that agreed to be extrovert.
People (including me but I'm usually introvert though) usually claim be to introvert 😄😄
It's so good to know that you're highly connected with those souls
It's always a beautiful thing whenever we surround ourselves with people who can stand by us through thick and thin. It's no lie that finding genuine friendships is a very hard task nowadays because one can't exactly tell the true intentions of other people.
You're very lucky to have friends like floradaa and amicableamara.
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Indeed I am lucky...so surrounded with amazing friends. I can't ask for more
Thanks for your nice words my dear
You're most welcome ✨
I don't think I have a circle of friends 😂, I'm very picky and carefully when it comes to making friends.
Your type of friends shows the real definition of friendship, those that will be there for you during hard and tough times.
Well, in case your admission of friends is open kindly notify me, I believe I'm interested 🤗😂.
Thanks for sharing
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Having success-oriented friends that'll motivate and inspire each other to achieve their goals makes life more better. It's these kind of people we can share our journey with and count on both in good and bad times.
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Thanks for this yummy 😋 comment
Lol, I think I can tell the meaning of oil full my head.
You're most welcome!
If you can't, then you may need to pay 10 HBD 😉 only for me to tell you the meaning
Lol
Eh? I think I can know the meaning lol. Based on logical reasoning :)
Real friends are twin souls. I got my set of friends from childhood till this day. You are also lucky to have genuine friends and hey, they're also on #Hive. Love this piece about friendship. Thanks for sharing. 💕
I have hive friends.. amazing friends as at that.. without them, I may have quit hive since ..lol
Wow, am just reading this beautiful piece. @nkemakonam89 you are a true friend, a good woman, a special confidant and a woman with great anointing from God. i respect our friendship, it gladdens my heart to see this lovely writeup about our friendship. Thanks for always being there for me. @amiable-amara allow me to talk about this powerful woman with a large heart, she has a lot of positive vibes and would never settle for less, she has so much love in her heart to share and she always want the people around her to succeed . Finally her rich aunty vibes gives me joy to always want to roll with her. am so glad to know this woman with energy and positive vibes. “Truly great friends are hard to find, difficult to leave, and impossible to forget''. So much love for these ladies❤️.
Awwwwww 🥰🥰🥰
I am blushing 😂😂😂
Floraaaaaaaaa 😂😂😂
Kuku finish me at once ..see hype oo 😂
Wow.... you are an amazing being and you know that. I love and celebrate you flora. Keep being you and thanks for accepting my weaknesses as a friend 🫂
Thanks dear anytime ❤️❤️