ONE THING I HATE MOST

I really wish people can sit down and think deeply about the after-effects of some actions they want to take first before fulfilling their missions. But then, most times we got carried away with the happenings in our environment and want to satisfy our urge by all means irrespective of the negative effect. We are in a world where both good and bad manners of living are full everywhere however, life is a choice. We can choose to live a life we feel is the best for us but then, we should also bear in mind that everything has repercussions. There are some things I hate with a passion, like, I try with everything in me to avoid any trace of it in my life but for this contest, I will only discuss one as instructed by the #hivelearners community.

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Cheating is becoming common in our world today for both married men and women. There were times I use to think that it was only men that cheat not until I saw with two eyes how married women in my former estate bring men into their matrimonial homes once their husbands leave to work. Of course, people have 1001 reasons for engaging in any act but does any of your reasons justify a bad act? Okay, let's leave my gender for now and talk about men because men are still leading when it comes to infidelity, but note, I am not in support of anyone into such an act.

Some men cheat on their wives with high-class ladies most often instead of making their wives look like one. Cheating has really led many to their ruins, creating unnecessary problems for themselves and their first wife and children. I have seen men who accidentally have another family out there due to cheating, thereby creating so much expense and trouble for themselves. Children will also grow from different mothers to be dragging properties. The once happy family all of a sudden turns sour just because of a one-time cheat. I guess some men really do not think far while attempting to cheat. They only want to get pleasure at that time and nothing like, "what if".

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It will also interest you to know that some ladies out there are fetish. They get themselves involved in charm just to attract any man of their choice to themselves and wouldn't stop until they achieve their purpose with such a man. This is how extent our world has turned out to be today but then, charm can't work on you if you didn't go and meet them and that might be a path to your ruin if you should cross paths with such ladies. In most cases, cheating doesn't always end well. It's difficult for some men and women not to cheat ..but it's nice if they don't cheat, I really detest this with passion.

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Do you also know that cheating can lead to domestic violence? When the other party finds out that you cheat on him or her, it could lead to an ugly experience. Some women don't take the trash, they can go the extra mile to cause so much pain to the man for hurting her feelings likewise if a man finds out that his wife cheats, oh...hell will lose 🔥.

The truth is that some people see no wrong thing in cheating anymore, but I really wish we can all reach that level of discipline where we stick to our partner alone to avoid the possible unhealthy outcome.

This post was inspired by the #hivelearners community on the topic titled YOUR MOST HATED THING

THANKS FOR READING!!!



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Of course, people have 1001 reasons for engaging in any act but does any of your reasons justify a bad act?

To me, I will never feel pity for anyone involve in any bad act and trying to give excuses or reasons for it. Why would you tell me you went into prostitution because you want to feed your family? Is there no work? Even if we say government aren't giving jobs, what about technology that has made things easier?

The truth is, most people are just so lazy and do not want the best. They do not look at the aftermath of it but will go into one for the little benefits they get for a while but what happens thereafter?

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If only everyone can reason responsibly 👌. The people that attach excuse to their bad act are simply lazy ones. Thereafter, it can't end well of course..lol

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I hate this one with passion, then some girls will say they follow me because they have no one to help them but that's not true.

I just pray they have open eyes to discover the consequences of infidelity and repent from it.

I wish you well

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You gerrit my dear.... people don't really think about some consequences before taking actions
Thanks for visiting babe

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I agree with you on this but not to the extent of hate. I just feel it's not responsible to the other person if you cheat. It'll hurt them if you break up with them but it won't be as bad if they find out you were having someone on the side.

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Ok ooo
I agree with you to some an extent
Thanks for dropping by 👍🤗

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It is a very shameful thing for our married men to cheat on their partners, same with married women.

At times I do sit and think, what has been coming over their heads to act that way.

They are not satisfied with one wife and husband. 😭😭

In my post I wrote about this same thing "divorce".

I hate it with passion.
Goosebumps all over me when I saw this act.

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Smiles 🥰
We are all different with different characters...we can only preach it but can't change anyone

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I agree with you people cheat this days like is nothing I hate and it sucks but what can we do I like that fact that you don't like it.

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Hehehe let cheating be in peace na. 😀

Well I can relate to the hurt cheating brings and if effect on relationship and the home at large.

I hope we all have the strength and grace to live above falling in it trap or becoming it prey.

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No peace for the wicked 😂😂😂😂😂

I hope we all have the strength and grace to live above falling in it trap or becoming it prey.

Exactly vickoly 👍☑️🙏

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In this era people see cheating as something normal which is not , let not even talk about the boyfriend and girlfriend but why will married couples cheat in fact it is more rampant in couples

This cheating is a very big disease i must say.

Thanks for sharing my beautiful sister 💗

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Girl friend and boy friend is not my problem.. lolz
Married couples suffers the effects more and I really wish we can all see this

Thank you more money 🤑💰

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Especially between teenagers cheating is something that is a norms to some of them and most of them even go to the extent of dating a married man. I must say the world is so fucked up now and to get a decent person to date without them cheating on you will have to come miraculously 😂.

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Hahaha 😂😂
Indeed it will be by miracle ☺️
That's the world we found ourselves today oo 😂👍

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