Complicated relationship

Please I want to share this story here and its more like a real situation someone is facing currently.

It goes like this ;

A friend ; she and her boyfriend are very close and were both in an open relationship that they tell each other almost everything,
the guy was also hanging out with other girls so he do tell her about his ex girlfriend's .

Since it was an open relationship the lady was always telling him about her sugar daddy's and the different gifts they usually give her too , most times if her sugar daddy sends her money the guy is always aware of it too because she do tell him about it and at the end they'll share it together.

She also do take love calls from her sugar daddy in front of this same guy and he wasn't having any issues with it ,same way he mostly take calls from few girls that he hangs out with too.

Each time she goes out with her sugar daddy's they sometimes spend days in different states and she always inform the guy about it..

But then after 2years of the open relationship, that was when the problem started.

she said her boyfriend started acting awkward ,
he somehow changed after she went out with one of her sugar daddies and it happened that when she got back after 2days ,he was just giving her some funny attitude.

The guy started getting angry unnecessarily,

Started seing fault in what ever she does.,

After some weeks he just doesn't show her love like he use to before,

Most times when they have issues he condemns she and her female friends alot in her presence and even at the presences of his friends.

he would try to put blames on her when ever they have any slight issues ,
And just like that' the relationship was no longer going well and she was trying her best to make him happy by doing most of the things he wants.

Even thou she wasn't feeling his vibes or enjoying the relationship anymore after he changed, she was still not ok with the advices her friends were giving her to dump the guy..

she claims shes still inlove with him, sooo much that she only needs help on ways to please him because he told her he have stopped communicating with those of his ex girlfriends but he never told her to stop going out with her sugar daddies even though she actually stopped when he started giving her attitude too.

anytime she tries to talk to her him about his sudden change he will not reply her,

And now 'she doesn't know what to do about he's sudden change towards her..

In my own opinion;

I feel there's definitely

No relationship at all..
Like non

A lady who allow herself to be used like that is not wise.

Any boyfriend that allows you to be going out with sugar daddy ,
collecting money and spending it together can not be serious with you.

The guy will just be using her for buisness and pleasure till he gets tired ..
And i think he already have.

If a lady can't define her relationship with a man , she's better off alone or better still she should go look for another relationship because the guy will be using the things shes doing against her always,
And this happens mostly when the guy is either

Tired of her,
Bored of using her, and most

especially when he now found someone else.

That relationship is just friends with benefits, there is no relationship.

Now,,

What she can do is to excuse and cut off from that guy no matter the love.

She should let go of that guy and look for ways to add value to herself.

Just so you know ,
'in a relationship like this;

*She won't have right to complain if the guy cheat , so to avoid that ,she should just let go of the cruising partnership



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