Attitude.

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Attitude is an inward feeling expressed by an outward behaviour. Attitude is about the way a person feels on the inside that they express outward. How you feel on the inside is expressed through your behaviour on the outside.


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How you carry yourself determines who you also attract. To desire you don't need money yet people desire so little. It's the same thing with expectations yet people expect so little. We don't need money to have a desire or expectation.

Your attitude is what determines your advancement or your demotion. Your attitude would determine how far you will go with the help of people too or how far people would avoid you based on your attitude. Your attitude can either advance you or bring you down.

Your attitude determines your altitude in life. How far you go and how you are retained on that path is determined by your attitude. Your attitude towards correction would determine how you will succeed. Anyone can make mistakes but your attitude to that mistake would determine a lot. If anyone wants to help you, it's your attitude that would determine a lot.

Attitude is a guarantee and it's not a mistake. If you add the numerical values to the spelling of attitude, you get 100. It's important for us to have the right attitude to things because it will determine how far we would go in life.

Where you grew up and how you grew up can affect your attitude. It is wrong to form opinion about what people say about you. It's not what they say about you that matters but what you say to yourself when they are done talking. Don't let what they say form an attitude in you that brings about negative behaviour. Pick the right ones, improve on yourself and seek to be better with positive attitude. When you lose touch of who you are, you begin to get affected by what others say about you.

If you have a negative self image about yourself it will affect your attitude. What people say about you, what you absorb in and what you see around forms your self image and you need to choose the right image for yourself. People with low self esteem sometimes seek attention and validation and if it doesn't come, it affects them.

Stop deriving who you are based on what others say or don't say. See yourself in the light of who God says you are and who you know you are. Don't stop improving...take the positives and don't dwell too much on what they are saying or not saying.

Your association can determine the kind of attitude you have and put up with as well. Surround yourself with people of good character rather than those with questionable characters. Your association determines a lot and whatever you are exposed to over time determines what you pick up. Get your acts together. Get your attitude right. Seek to be better. Know thyself.


Thank you for your time.


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Just like the adage.. Tell me who your friends are and I tell you who you are. .. Although it is a kind of being judgemental, somewhat true in some aspects .
But it's better to surround ourselves with good people to have a positive mindset 😊..

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It's good to surround ourselves with positive minded people. It reflects on us in the long run and it's better. Thank you sweet Janey.

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You have said it all bro.

Many lives have been ruin by their attitude, and they thought it's someone doing them bad. Like you said, attitude would determine how far we go in life. Hummmmm. That's so deep for those that think about it. Thanks for sharing @olawalium.

How are you doing and family?

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Thank you so much. Attitude is indeed important. I'm doing great and we are all fine. What about you? How are your babies? 😍

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🤣🤣🤣 my babies are doing great. Though I didn't hear from Moriregba and Semilore again oo but I know God is taking care of them. The new baby is doing great sir. Thanks bro

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How we carry ourselves does say a lot about who we are and attract our kind. Reminds of 9ice music on Attitude.
😍😍. How attitude matters and we should endeavor to pour out the right one to ourselves and the people around us.

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Exactly, my dear. We need the right attitude and shod uphold it. It would make or mar us.

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Our attitude is like a ticket to a plane and like you said it demotes one or promotes one. No one can really hide who they are that's why it's important we select friends who are likeminds or some who will help improve you.

It shows who those people really are no matter how they paint themselves blue, black or even green... you would always remain you and the only thing that would be adjusted or perhaps I should say advanced is your attitude.

Attitude when you are about 20 years of age and attitude when you are 35 years of age ain't same... it's the advancement that comes with experience and encounters from life.

Attitude represents you... we should always keep tabs on ourselves for a better attitude.

Nice piece lium.

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This is not only beautiful but brilliant and I absolutely enjoyed this. You spoke the truth. Thank you so much for this, babe.

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Attitude is the window with which all interactions are framed, it is important to have a good one! Awesome post :)

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It's very important to have a good one.

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some powerful thoughts, Olawalium.

and always worth doing a periodical check on what is influencing out attitude

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