Cherishing Genuine Connections: Friends Who Inspire Success

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This week wasn't as amazing as I would have hoped it to be—and that's fine—but today was just the height of it all. And, knowing the detriments of bottling things up, I considered reaching out to a few of my friends. Guess what? Well, that was the best decision; speaking up, I mean.

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The reason I had a bad great day is not our center of focus here and now, however. Instead, the value, importance, and necessity of having friends will be our pivotal points.

I do not have that many people that I would truly call "friends." Maybe I do know a lot of people, and a decent amount of people know me, depending on who you ask, but the idea and truth are that my circle of friends is quite small. Well, the definition of "small" is subjective. My small group may be like fifteen or twenty people, you know, but we get the idea, don't we? Yes, we do....now move on.

Over the years, however, my circle of friends has taken on different shapes and sizes. That is, I have had addition, subtraction, multiplication, and division performed on it. You know what I mean. But currently, it consists of people that I would say are truly amazing in their own way.

For one, I have an association of friends that I am a part of, registered by the FBI, the Federal Bureau of Interrelationships. We call it...drum rolls...The Gentle-Bros. Yeah, it's pretty cool, innit. Let's move along...

Why and what does this "association" exist for?

Fundamentally, we started out as individual friends with one another, and as fate would have it, we happened to live in the same residence for a long time. And that's how the magic started.

Now, fast forward to not so many years later, and we realized that we had actually grown so much together and have now become brothers in many ways. And since we were graduating, we thought we should have this association to keep us together. In many conversations after, we took things a step further.

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We are accountability buddies and more. Yeah, you read that right. As we are now, we'd like to work things out for ourselves, navigate life efficiently, and attain goals and achievements, as we inherently desire to be successful. But then, we thought that we could make it easier and more wholesome for ourselves if we carried one another along and helped ourselves grow. And so, the Gentle-Bros was born.

We stick with one another like gum on a shoe, and in one way or another, we try to come through for ourselves. We have our laughs and disagreements—as they are normal—and they sure as hell are guys that I can count on for many other things.

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Another friend of mine, of whom you probably know, and our relationship, is one that I would call a brother. There is a full article here for them if you'd like to know how deep it is.

We have done a lot together, and we will continue to do so in the future. Because of our friendship brotherhood, I have grown in certain areas, and the same applies to them as well. You know what they say: "Iron sharpens iron."

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Should I continue to brag about my friends, we might as well turn this into a textbook. But we both know your patience for this to end is running dry already. I'd spare both of us the time and say just a few more words.


Basically, there are a couple of people I cherish. There is so much potential for success in them. They are all doing well in their respective endeavors, even though they'd disagree, but I know what I see and foresee. Time will tell and reveal it all as it passes.

In the low times, like today, they are the ones I'd fall to, and in the great times, they are the ones I would celebrate with. They have had my in the past, and so have I, and we will continue to stick with one another.


I guess that's a wrap on me bragging about my friends today. Thank you for reading.


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Of course I know that you can't about your circle of friends without mentioning the gentle bros 😍
I know..I do know how much you guys are bonded for good and with higher aspirations in life

You are lucky to have amazing friends around you

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Nkem already knows me too well. 😄 Of course, I will mention them.

I'm glad to have you and certain people in my life.
Thank you, Sweet Nkem.

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Great. Having people to call upon in time of distress and people to celebrate with in time of joy is a special thing.

I have an association of friends that I am a part of, registered by the FBI, the Federal Bureau of Interrelationships.

Registered by the FBI? I didn’t even realise there is something like that.

It quite surprising how guys lived in the same place for a long time. I guess it is fate.

Should I continue to brag about my friends, we might as well turn this into a textbook

Hehe.. we don’t want it turning into a textbook.

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Of course, the Federal Bureau of Interrelationships isn't real. I made it up.

We were in the same department in school, actually. Moving into the same hostel just happened as we had been close already.

Thank you for coming around, Lizzy.

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Hey, brotherly! It's good to know you have a circle with a cool picture. I just realise I don't really have a circle picture 😅😂. If I wanted to attempt this prompt, how would I?

Our relationship has been one of the best I have formed over the years and the truth is, It feels more like a brotherhood. I take you as my brother whom I never knew.

I am glad we met, and I hope we grow stronger together.

I love you brother! ❤️

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Better go get some photographs with your guys. Actually, these photographs happened because of certain events that happened in our final year and graduation.

Love you too, man. I hope we grow stronger, too.

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What a lovely circle, it is good to have each other's back when in distress and also share a happy moment together

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Indeed. Thank you for reading.

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The Circle of friends you keep, Goes a long way to influence your Life.
Productivity, capacity,Drives and Characters too can be defined.
You are so lucky to have great friends 👍
Well done boss

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Indeed, man. I consider myself privileged to have them, actually.

Thank you for coming around.

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Gentle Bros! Makes so much sense to me. Nice circle of friends.

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I appreciate that. Thanks for reading.

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It's wonderful, having people you can truly count on. You just know that whenever you need them, they will be there for you and vice versa. You're lucky as many people don't have such familial relationships with people that aren't even their direct family.✨

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Oh, yes. I do consider myself privileged to have them. Truth be told, there are indeed people that don't have anyone to cling to. It's sad.

I believe you do have your circle of friends. Are any of them here on Hive?

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Yeah, I had friends outside. And now, I have a family on Hive. A few people that would do anything for me and vice versa.
It's a really wonderful thing.

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I can relate to that; having a family on Hive. It's amazing how this space has brought so much cherished connections

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