UNEQUAL GENDER EQUALITY 2
Hello beautiful people. From all we learned in part 1, we know that both parties have to work hand in hand if their aim will be achieved.
There is joy in partnership.
The man can join in making sure the home affairs run smoothly, taking care of the children and keeping them engaged, dropping them off at school and also help with chores in and around the house. The woman can also decide to take on some bills to lighten the financial load and also help with some decisions that do not need the man to be stressed about every little detail.
This should be an agreement between them on how they can amicably compromise and lend a helping hand to each other as their capacity allows. Any partner who doesn't wish to share in the role playing has no right to demand that their partners be involved in their roles as well.
A man who wants a traditional housewife who takes care of the home should be ready to make provision for what will ease her life, pay all the bills, buy the machines to help her achieve all of these without complains, if that's not the case, then the man has no right to say she shouldn't work or have a business.
The same goes for a man who wants a career woman, he should be ready to fill in the gaps in the marriage so that she is not overwhelmed by working and still coming home to work full time and take care of the children.
A woman who wants a traditional provider husband, should be ready to work hard at taking care of the home provided all the bill are taken care of, if she must have a source of income, it must not interfere or get in the way of performing her housewife duties as she is not contributing to the payment of bills.
If however she is ready to split the bills with her husband and carry some of the burden, she knows how to compromise and use money to sort out most of her household needs.
It's true that a couple should be a team. Society has turned everything into a gender battle instead of focusing on their project in common. For example, now con same sex couples, who then will take care of the home and who will bring the money? Both can be doing the exact same things just because that is what their gender is supposed to do, they have to distribute tasks in other way. Same should be with any couple... obviously there is tasks related to the gender just because it is easier for them to complete, but it still doesn't mean both shouldn't be helping each other...
Even when there is a routine that works, can be sickening to never have a day off your usual duties.
Thanks for this