MY GREATEST FEAR IN LIFE
It's very hard to see someone who has no fear, infact let me put it this way, there's no one in this world who has nothing to fear. It is the nature of human that fear is something inevitable but the ability to handle those fears is what makes us different.
I have feared lots of things since I was small and I will say that there are still somethings I fear till now and even as time goes by, I will still be afraid of those things. It's something you face on a daily basis and it is bound to happen either ways. I will be listing some of my greatest fear in life;
FEAR OF THE UNKNOWN
I had to Choose this as my number one because I have always asked myself what will happen the next minute or the next day. The fear of not knowing what will happen until it happens has been a terrifying one for me, if only I could detect or predict the feature, I can be able to stop some tragic things that might happen.
Being at the wrong place at the wrong time is very terrifying because you didn't know that being there at that particular time will cause so many harm to you, that is why I fear the unknown.
FEAR OF LOSING MY LOVED ONES
Whenever this comes to my mind, I get so scared because losing someone you love is a sorrowful thing knowing fully well that you won't see them again. I remember when I lost my mom, it was very difficult for me to get over it even till now.
Imagine sleeping on your bed with you loved one only for you to wake up the next morning and he/she is no more, though death is inevitable that's why I even fear it the more because sooner or later, it will happen. Losing a pet hurts not to talk of losing a family member or a friend, even if you don't know the person, you will feel the fear of death.
FEAR OF MAKING THE WRONG CHOICES
Making choices in life might seems simple and easy to you but wait until you see that those choices you made will start affecting you in a negative way. Like they say "investing is a risk" what if the risk you have chosen to take is the wrong one? We take risk in life but is it the right one? Or probably, you want to settle down with someone and your choice of choosing a life partner is the wrong one also.
This is another fear I have to battle with everyday. I don't want a situation where by I get to make the wrong choices, I want that whichever decision I have to make either in taking risk or choosing a life partner, it should be the right one.
FEAR OF THE AFTERLIFE
Has this ever come to you mind before? after life where will you go? It's something you need to ask yourself and search your heart if truly you will make heaven. I don't want my struggle here on earth to be in vain. The struggle and the goal is to make heaven but I'm scare of not making that. Thinking of it everyday and checkmating my heart if I have done something wrong makes me fear the more.
Though we humans are bound to fear but I pray our fears doesn't overcome us and I pray for things to work out in our own good.
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I am very sorry for your loss. 🥺
May her soul rest in perfect peace.
My greatest fear also is the fear of the afterlife, it really scares me to my bones.
Thank you very much for mentioning me.
Thanks dear
You're very much welcome 😊
Thanks so much for the invite, I'll try and work in it.
Fear is a major factor that hinders our progress in different aspects and until we overcome it, we might forever be a prisoner of the alleged fear.
So sorry about your mom, it's well.
But then it's normal to have fear like you said, everyone does.
Yeah you're very correct
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Seriously, I fear the afterlife too. Like where would I end up in my life? This is why I am always asking for God´s mercy every minute so I would surely have a wonderful place at the end of the journey.
That is the goal dear, to make it at the end.
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Losing a love one is something that hurts to the heart, may mom soul rest in peace.
A lot of things have made scared about life but that doesn't mean we shouldn't be what we want to be or do the things we ought to do.
Yes being afraid doesn't mean we have to forget the things of life.
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Losing a loved one can be devastating and that I fear so much as well .
Like you said , fear is inevitable but our ability to control it matters a lot .
Good luck with the contest .
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The fears you listed are valid. Always afraid of tomorrow, the afterlife, making wrong choices, etc. But somehow we can't completely run away from them, I'll learned to do what's right and allow what follows to come. But even though, I still fear because their consequences are always horrific and terrible
Yeah you're right
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It's true, fear is part of humans but the good thing is we have the ability to control it.
So sorry about those you've lost on the way, the sad thing is, we will still loss people, I hope you keep fighting your fears.
I hope to keep on fighting my fears so I can overcome them
Thanks dear for your support 🤗
Don't worry as long as you keep fighting them, you will be a conquer.