How Writing Came Through for Me

Before my adventure on Hive I use to be an introvert and I don't know how it is with other introverts out there because I seriously did not like the way I was unable to mingle with friends out there, several times I try to flow with the multitude then I end up losing words to say even in the middle of conversations. I was so baffled that I use to ask myself questions in my closet, maybe I wasn't a brave person or is there something wrong with me? Because I know myself not to be a doll kind of guy, I can speak English which is the language of communication among people in my vesinity but why do I go clueless about what to say despite deep inside me I have allot of points I want to make clear, why does these things happen to me that way?

Sometimes I get angry at my self that I am not bold enough to face people but gradually I began to come to the realization of my problems.

The sincere truth and answer to my questions is that I am not really bold at speaking out because that's my problem and that's why I loose words in the middle of conversation with individuals. I could flow very well with friends but when it comes to people I am meeting for the first time it's really a tug of war for me to communicate my ideas fluently to them specially the opposite gender.

Gradually I began to fight the spirit of fear with all zealousness because I really want to make my points understood to my audience and I want to flow with any type of person I come across with, I want to be able to stand up and talk in a congregation or meetings and talk very well.

The point I am trying to make here is that communication is very important regardless the means either through writting or Orally, well, as I struggle to be able to communicate with people orally I found comfort and much ease when I get to pass messages or information to individuals through writting, since I find it difficult to speak in public, when I am opportuned to write I make sure I utilize that opportunity very well and elaborate and expanciate my points very well to my audience.

Writing has really helped me particularly that finds it very hard to talk in public. I cheer some of the groups I am into on social media facebook and WhatsApp specifically, I am not sure I will be able to communicate to these individuals orally as much as I hold the groups through passing information through writting.

Maybe it's because I have enough time to think before writing or maybe I don't have to face anybody before passing information but I will say these are really the reasons why I am able to communicate through writting more than speaking, sometimes I write to the extend when I come reading what I wrote i imagine if I was really the person who wrote these things I am reading. I seriously have challenge talking to people but the method of writing has seriously come through for me, I could pass my points on Hive to hundredths of people through my write-ups but I don't think I will be successful in doing that orally, writing as really helped people like me to communicate to allot of people that if we will stand a chance to do that in another means of communication would be a very big problem for me.

Thank you so much for reading through my entry for Hive Learners weekly contest for Week fifteen espisode two

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