LOH contest #66 - El fantasma que ví, era mi papá despidiéndose (Es/En)

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Hola mi hermosa comunidad de ladies of hive. Me encantan los concursos con uds, y me fascina este. Les deseo mucho éxito a todas con este concurso. Curiosamente para mí estas dos preguntas están lígadas.

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Sí tuviera la oportunidad de tatuarme ahora ¿qué sería? Primero que nada, quiero contarles que soy amante de los tatuajes, ya poseo unos cuántos en mi pierna izquierda, y en mi muñeca izquierda. Y tengo varios tatuajes en mente, admiro mucho a las personas con tatuajes.

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Hace un año y pico falleció mi padre biológico. No crecí con él, fue alguien que conocí a mis 21 años, y la experiencia fue mágica, eso que dicen que la sangre llama sí es cierto, yo sentí amor, emoción; realmente las almas se conocen y tienen acuerdos. Desde ese entonces tuve comunicación y muy buena comunicación con mi papá, le contaba de mis problemas de pareja, de mis sueños, de mis frustraciones, siempre sabía oírme y aconsejarme con sutileza, sin juicios.

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(La de la foto soy yo cuando conocí a mi papá y el bolso era de los que fabricaba él)

Fue una hermosa persona. Él fabricaba bolsos, hermosos bolsos, siempre me enviaba bolsos una vez al año. Me había prometido enviarme unos bolsos. Pero ya tenía un mes sin saber nada de él. Dos días antes a su muerte, eran las 12 am cuando veo un niño pequeño catire pasar por el baño y me dice hola, con dulce voz, me asuste y luego pensé que era producto de mi imaginación, me fui a dormir sin pensar mucho en eso.


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Al otro día le comento a una amiga que es supersticiosa, y me dice: ¡ Ay alguien se va a morir y se está despidiendo! Yo pensé en qué era absurdo, en que quién iba a morir cercano a la familia. Mi sorpresa es al siguiente día a las 8:00 am , cuando me llama mi hermana, hija de mi papá, a decirme que él había fallecido. El niño que me dijo hola la noche anterior era mi papá despidiéndose, así lo interpreté yo, incluso se me estremece la piel recordando ese momento. No era producto de mi imaginación.


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Mi padre murió en un hospital sólo porque iniciaba la pandemia, no permitían acompañantes, antes de irse al hospital sujetaba a mi hermana de la mano, y no la quería soltar, hasta que llegó la ambulancia, y el solito se entro en ella caminando, no se quiso despedir de nadie.

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Cuando murió mi papá de una vez pensé en que quería tatuarme algo en su memoria y le pregunté a mi hermana, sobre algo que representará el amor o unión entre ellos. Puesto que yo no tuve su presencia en mi vida, ella sí, y podía simbolizarme esa unión. Ella me dijo que el tatuaje ideal que representaría su amor de padre e hija seria dos manos agarradas, que dijeran nunca te sueltes de mí.

Ese tatuaje planeo hacérmelo en la costilla derecha, con una flores encima. Es mi sueño y espero poder realizarlo. Muchas gracias por este maravilloso espacio, es la primera que cuento esto, y no pensé que un concurso uniera estás dos anécdotas tan significativas de mi vida. Espero les haya gustado mi participación, me comenten que les pareció, y muchos éxitos a todas. Por último deseo invitar a @yetsimar a participar.

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Hello my beautiful ladies of hive community. I love the contests with you, and I love this one. I wish you all success with this quiz. Curiously for me these two questions are linked.

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If I had the opportunity to get a tattoo now, what would it be? First of all, I want to tell you that I love tattoos, I already have a few on my left leg and on my left wrist. And I have several tattoos in mind, I admire people with tattoos a lot.

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A year and a bit ago my biological father passed away. I didn't grow up with him, he was someone I met when I was 21 years old, and the experience was magical, what they say that blood calls is true, I felt love, emotion; souls really know each other and have agreements. Since then I had communication and very good communication with my father, I told him about my problems as a couple, my dreams, my frustrations, he always knew how to listen to me and advise me with subtlety, without judgments.

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I'm the one in the picture when i fisrt met my father, he used to manufacture those purses

He was a beautiful person. He made bags, beautiful bags, he always sent me bags once a year. He had promised to send me some bags. But I hadn't heard from him for a month. Two days before his death, it was 12 am when I saw a little boy passing by the bathroom and he said hello, with a sweet voice, I was scared and then I thought it was a figment of my imagination, I went to sleep without thinking much about it.


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The next day I told a friend of mine who is superstitious, and she told me: oh, someone is going to die and is saying goodbye! I thought it was absurd, who was going to die close to the family. My surprise was the next day at 8:00 am, when my sister, my dad's daughter, called me to tell me that he had passed away. The boy who said hello to me the night before was my dad saying goodbye, that's how I interpreted it, even my skin tingles remembering that moment. It was not a figment of my imagination.


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My father died in a hospital just because the pandemic started, they did not allow companions, before going to the hospital he held my sister by the hand, and did not want to let her go, until the ambulance arrived, and he walked into the ambulance by himself, he did not want to say goodbye to anyone.

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When my dad died I thought at once that I wanted to get something tattooed in his memory and I asked my sister about something that would represent the love or union between them. Since I didn't have his presence in my life, she did, and she could symbolize that union to me. She told me that the ideal tattoo that would represent their father-daughter love would be two hands clasped together, saying never let go of me.

I plan to get that tattoo on my right rib, with a flower on top. It is my dream and I hope I can make it come true. Thank you very much for this wonderful space, it's the first time I tell this, and I didn't think that a contest would unite these two anecdotes so significant in my life. I hope you liked my participation, let me know what you thought of it, and best wishes to all of you.

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I am sorry you lost your dad; it's not an easy thing. I think the symbolism of the tattoo you describe; two hands holding in a heart, is perfect.

Thanks for sharing your story. Take care!

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I was not expecting that
This is the first time hearing that seeing a child has the message of losing someone ...
That's a beautiful tattoo to remember your dad by

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Wow esa historia no la sabía, que misterioso, pero sin duda era su papá despidiendose.

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You received 2 LADY(LOH) tokens for entering the Ladies of Hive contest!

We believe that you should be rewarded for the time and effort spent in creating articles. The goal is to encourage token holders to accumulate and hold LOH tokens over a long period of time.

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I lost my father in an accident many years ago and I am sad that he never met his grandsons. I loved him so much but he lives again in my dreams, never aging and always there to assure me that things are okay.

Thank you for sharing @paoladiaz

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