MUJER: Con “M” de Mamá 🌺 Nueva Columna en HIVE

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MUJER: Con “M” de Mamá

Columna informativa e interactiva

Receive my cordial greetings, with love and with much excitement on this Wednesday, March 15, 2023, in which I present to you the first edition of my new column called Woman with "M" for Mom which I will be presenting from the Community Womentribe every Wednesday thanks to the invitation I kindly received from @nanyuris, administrator of this important and beautiful female community in Hive. I take this opportunity to say that I was surprised and at the same time flattered by her proposal, for being an honor for me to be part of the @womentribe columnist team and without looking I accepted with pleasure my new responsibility in our beloved blockchain.

From this new informative and interactive space I will be together with you addressing the topic of motherhood, from gestation or adoption, and even from before these two processes, because to be a mom the preparation must come before having children in our womb or lap. We women were designed to be mothers and as motherhood goes beyond carrying children in the womb, giving birth or adopting them, signing or not a legal document, here we will be very close to talk about being a woman with M for mom.

Woman with M mom

As we know, every woman has goals, hobbies, needs, desires, dreams to fulfill, that being a mother can leave aside or complement them with motherhood. I mean that whatever the case may be, we can turn that child or those children into participants of a new map for mom to carry out her goals as a true integral being. That is why women with M for Mom see motherhood as a privilege and not as an obstacle, taking advantage of the divine gift of children to be integral women, much more determined women, enterprising women aware of their role as providers of well-being. Women with M for Mom can be professionals, athletes, artists, wives, sisters-in-law, daughters, sisters, cousins, nieces, granddaughters, friends of their friends, they can laugh, watch a movie, have a coffee, take a relaxing shower after a stressful day, read a book slowly no matter how many days it takes, but the most important thing is that they live with responsibility to care, form and guide other human beings who are and will always be the most important in their lives; their children.

Mothers have many roles to fulfill so when thinking about raising a child we must be aware that it involves more than buying baby clothes, toys and other baby accessories. Yes, let's remember that a child is a human being, a person, a citizen that we must protect in every way, let's also take into consideration that children do not ask to come into the world, therefore, they are our absolute responsibility. So in principle we must:

Know how to feed them, take them out the gas, change their diaper constantly, bathe them, dress them, lower a fever, relieve a pain, take them to the pediatrician, comply with vaccinations in a timely manner, attend to a blow, heal a wound, wash their clothes, clean the secretions from their nose, cut their nails, calm a tantrum, as they grow up, we must listen to their questions, teach them values and good habits, give them everything they need for their schooling, watch over them but not harass them, celebrate their achievements, understand their worries and also their joys. We must also learn psychology, teaching, first aid, nutrition, administration and much more. In short, children must be accompanied with love, patience and abnegation from the time they are born until they grow up, fulfilling their rights but at the same time teaching and demanding the fulfillment of their duties.

Surprised?... Well, there are many topics and necessary points that may surprise us, which is positive, since this column will be an opportunity for learning and mutual growth, because even the most veteran moms, besides contributing with their valuable experiences, can also learn from the new moms and vice versa, of course. So everyone is welcome to this column and you can even give me suggestions of any topic related to motherhood to be discussed in this space that was born thinking of the Woman with "M" for mom.

Before I say goodbye, I want us to watch together a video from guiainfantil on their YouTube channel where psychologist Silvia Álava touches on a very important point and that is about happiness or unhappiness as part of motherhood, which may sound like a contradiction in relation to my introduction in the first edition of this column. But believe me, every woman with "M" for mom should reflect on this video made with her emotional well-being in mind.

I am a mother but I am not happy, will my child not be happy either? Emotional well-being and motherhood.