Bro Code or Friendship

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I know many of you might be wondering why I choose such title for today’s post lol but you see for the past few days, I’ve had something on my mind that normally wouldn’t bother me if I didn’t know the two people involved. Because Like I always say here, I’m a strong member of the “mind your business” community 😅 and for a while I’ve really been doing just that, minding my business. But then minding your business becomes a very hard thing to do when it involves your friends.

So here’s the gossip. I have this very close female friend of mine who happens to be in a relationship with another friend of mine. Though I happen to be more close to her than her boyfriend because I’ve known her the longest. But lately, something has been disturbing my mind.

I have seen my friend’s boyfriend cheating (kissing someone else is cheating right?) on her with another girl. If this had been a one time thing, then I probably wouldn’t be thinking much about it but you see, yesterday was the second time I saw it happen with a different girl and now I just can’t help it but think that maybe he’s also just playing my friend.

Because you see as a guy, I get it that it’s really hard to be faithful as a man (I swear to you it is) and sometimes we might fall to the temptations and might even call it a mistake (even though it’s most definitely not) but cheating twice with two different ladies is definitely not a mistake, that’s just you being you.

If this was someone I didn’t know, I probably (emphasis on Probably) would have told my friend about what I saw but seeing how the guy involved is also a friend,I really don’t know what to do. I’ve seen cases like this where a guy tells his female friend about her cheating boyfriend and then she storms to his place yelling and threatening all she wants, some even end up breaking up with their boyfriend, only for them to makeup in a few days and then I become their public enemy number one.

So I’m kinda like in a dilemma right now, should I break the number one rule of the “mind your business” community and tell her what I know or should I just mind my business and pretend like I saw nothing?

The bro code or friendship, which am I sticking with?



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Personally I would let the girl know. You're right, cheating with a couple people in that way, it's not some one off event you could easily keep silent easily or assume it was some kinf of one time mistake. In my opinion, I wouldn't be a good friend to the girl if I didn't let her know, same as to the other friend as if I didn't try to lead him in the right path. I think part of a good friendship is holding eachother accountable to some degree. Hope it works out well for you and them!

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Yeah, letting her know looks like the right thing to do but it might not be the best thing.

I'm confused man.

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