I have no choice than to quit
What will be will indeed be because nothing can change what it is meant to be in life.
It is said that love is sweet when you are with the right person and I always tell that if your relationship doesn't give you happiness, it is better to quit and let them go after all, love is not a do-or-die affair.
Some prayers didn't answer because if it does, we might get hurt at the end of it so God delayed them from answering so that we won't get hurt but then we will feel sad because of the delay.
I could remember when I was unlucky with the relationship then I was working and I can take care of myself but I want love so bad but everything I do to keep the relationship eventually ends in vain.
If I meet someone that wants me to be quiet I will obey till the last day of the relationship, if I meet someone that wants me to be lousy I will keep to that but in the end, things still badly
My last relationship was a toxic one but because I wanted the relationship so bad, I choose to stay one day, we had a misunderstanding like we always do and before I could say anything, the guy slapped me.
It was like there was lightning everywhere and I wonder how some married women endure abuse in their relationships.
I didn't get myself for like 30minutes and when I finally regained myself I just said, "I quit" and went out of his house.
I then vow never to have anything to do with him again and I stood on my words even though he came back to beg.
I didn't give him any chance to get close to me again because I quit being humiliated like an animal all in the name of love.
After some years we ran into each other at the market and I pretend to be nice with a smile on my face he said, "can I have your number please?".
I replied, "so you think I can be your friend after all you put me through? No you can't have my number".
What was I driving at in this story is that maybe God doesn't want me to have a relationship yet, all he wanted for me was to work, go to school and then have a good life which I ended up doing.
Back in my previous relationships, I thought I have seen it all and I have it all. It is always sweet and glowing when we first started with sweet love but sometimes we don't have to push it, we need to be patient while God is at work.
What I thought was that if I dance to a guy's music, the relationship will work out not knowing that no matter how hard I try, how much I keep to every rule from a man, if he is not meant for you he will end up leaving you.
As a human, we are too forward in some aspects thinking that we don't want to be left behind meanwhile we should have just waited and seen what God has for us.
Patience for things to fall into place - this is what many of us lack. And I understand why that is. We each have different timing, but we usually watch and care about what's going on with others - for example, all my friends were married when I didn't even have a boyfriend and that was depressing. But I didn't know that 'God just had' other plans and other timing for my life. 😊 By leaving this man, you made the best decision ever. Just a little faith, that's what we all need. And then a little patience.
Am telling you sis
Sometimes what we are running after is not what we need at the moment but because everyone around us are doing it
We want to get it done as well
Wow thank God you were able to quit the toxic relationship. This so call domestic violence has killed many ladies, it's better to be single and be hoping for the best spouse than be in a toxic relationship
I wonder how some married women endure such thing for years all in the name of what will people say?
We don't live for people we live our ourselves
I wonder how they cope with such men under the same roof
Assuming I saw something that I can use to wound him that day I would have cut off his hand because for a guy to slap me in a relationship
That means the marriage will be hell
Means most of those women saw the signs before they get married to their beast humans but because all their friends have gotten married they want it too by all means.
Hmmm it is well. I agree with you, we live for ourselves
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Patience is actually key in many endeavours, it help sieve out the bad and the good ones
Yes you are absolutely right buddy
Good for you that you quit! I would do the same. Then in my heart forgive and let go.
To be honest, I really love single life. I have been in couple long term relationships, but I always make sure to stay single for a while before I decide it’s time for another one.
When you find your true love you will LOVE being in love. You’ll realise you don’t need to change a thing to be loved. Until then, don’t settle for anything less 💙