A sister's worry || Creative Nonfiction in The Ink Well: Prompt #20

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I thought she was going to die this day as I felt so worried for my little sister who is the last born of the house. She was around 10 years old and was in Primary three (3) when she was hurriedly brought from the school that something was wrong with her. Her school was just a stone's throw from my mom's shop and because of this, when it was break time, she comes around with her only friend which they would eat lunch and return to class after the bell has been rung.

On that day, I was with my mom as I travelled from another state to visit my parents. Everything was going normal on that day when suddenly, a teacher carried my sister like a newborn baby and brought her to mom's shop. She was having high body temperature and sweat all over her body. I saw some little spots on her and we were informed that she had chickenpox

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"What is chickenpox?" I was curious to find out. Then, I do not have a browsing phone to check what it was. I only saw her covered with many spots from her head down to her toes. It spreads through her body. What could go wrong? She never felt anything before leaving for school in the morning and to see something happened hours later brought worries to my face.

My sister was uncomfortable as she started scratching all over her body. The more scratches, the brighter the spots and this brought pain. She was screaming and writhing in pain while growling on the floor. I was emotional and didn't know when tears dropped from my face. In my mind, I felt it should happen to me because she was very young and being older, I could have endured the pain more than her.

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My mom became more worried than I was. I could feel her pain as a mother. She paced around the shop, staring at her daughter while she was on a call. Through her conversation, I knew she was seeking a solution while the person on the other end was giving some descriptions as she wrote them down.

Technology and ignorance weren't of no use then, especially to people around that area; they were uneducated. They only believed in self-medication and herbs. We never went to a hospital before, all thanks to our mother who was knowledgeable in gathering different concoctions and herbs together and before you know it, we are cured. Her father was an herbalist and high priest before he died, and being a daughter of such a priest, she knew things like this.

After the call, she stepped out immediately while she told me to keep watching my sister as she needed to get something. After about thirty minutes, she returned with some leaves and herbal drugs. She quickly mixed them and rubbed my sister from the head down to her toes. I kept looking at her while she was doing this. Well, I was learning something and at the same time worried for my sister who was still crying so hard and scratching every part of her body. She doesn't mind the pain that comes after every scratch but just attends to every area scratching her at that moment.

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There were lots of people who came around to pacify and assured us that all will be well since my mother had done the first part. Then, a woman stepped forward and instructed my mom on some things to do which were; my sister should not sleep on the bed but on the floor and the floor must not be swept by a broom but a cloth as it could affect her the more. According to the woman, chickenpox must not see a broom. We made sure we complied with those instructions to prevent any occurrences.

I was overly worried and thought my sister would die. At that point, every negative thought kept coming and assuming observing her burial. Immediately, I resist death and consciously prayed to God to keep her safe and healthy.

My sister was naked with her only pant, at this time, mom had rubbed her body with red oil and made her lie on the bench as there was no mat in the shop. She felt relieved after that treatment and I was at peace too seeing her sleeping soundly. After some hours, she woke up feeling pain and crying. I felt she should be sleeping more because she needed it.

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When we got home in the evening, we made sure not to sweep the floor as instructed. After eating dinner, she was laid on the floor with nothing to cover her, only her pant with some red oil rubbed on her again. Dad was informed and he left his workplace very early. He worked in another state not far from ours and so, he had been called when the incident happened and he said he would be coming early that day.

He arrived at 7 pm that night, met my sister and felt anxious too. He asked several questions of how it happened and mom was so tired to give him all details. I only continued from where she stopped.

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For more than a week, I was the one going to shop while mom stood with her at home as they didn't want more people to know what was happening. While in the shop, it was only her friend who kept coming to ask how she was doing which I was glad someone was concerned for her. No teacher ever showed up since that day which made me sad but I couldn't blame them because according to some professionals, this disease spreads quickly. They were only careful which I understood but this small girl would always show up after closing hour at school.

After three weeks, my sister's health was improving. The spots were leaving gradually and she felt no pain. When I ask her how she was doing, she would say "I am okay". That relieved me so much and I wasn't worried as before.

The spot disappeared completely after some days but it left traces in her body. Today, no one would know she had chickenpox and the disease didn't spread too. Ever since then, she didn't experience such and she will be clocking twenty years in August this year.

Thanks for your time on my blog.

This is my entry to the Creative Nonfiction in The Ink Well: Prompt #20

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Chickenpox and measles, used to be a very scary disease back then, I am glad your mom knew the right treatment to give her.

And that little girl who always check on your sister admirable.

Anyone in your situation will be so worried, thank goodness she was okay.

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As in... It was that time I was so scared of those dresses. They are dangerous and could take lives if proper treatment isn't given. The itching sef could cause something bad.
That girl wowed me and I was like, "how could such young girl thought of showing up daily to ask of her?" It was love.

Thank you so much for stopping by.

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But your sister's teachers did not try at all. They should have at least asked after her.

Many years ago my elder sis caught measles, hmmm it was not funny at all. They are not that common these days because of vaccines.

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As in... I got shocked and even asked from mom why they didn't show up. They were scared but will showing up and greeting affect them too? Lol
Measles too is a bad one and I don't pray anyone go through it because the experience is always not funny.

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Wow, thank God she didn't die and you must have been worried because of the way she felt.

I can relate to this experience so well, it's an emotional pain.

I enjoyed reading.

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So emotional pain oo. I felt for her because it itched her like mad....
Thanks so much for reading 🤗

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Good thing your sister was cured but ever since I heard about that illness. No one died as long as it will be taken care of. It's not a frightening illness but it's annoying.

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Yes, it isn't frightening but as a young girl then, I felt more frightened and with the right treatment on time, it could help.
Thanks a lot for showing up.

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Chicken pox can worry ehhh! I had it when I newly resumed school and it dealt with me so badly. Some people said it's change of environment that caused it. It went off after like two or three weeks.

How far, didn't you learn herbs from your mom? Don't fall my hand

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Herbs? I didn't oo 😅
We are now civilized na and we can always visit the hospital. But I still take herbs 😆

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But I still take herbs 😆

This is what I'm saying.
Herbs still works.

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I think who loved their sisters some brothers can feel the pain of them. We grow up together and the understanding between us is much better then others. So, feeling the pain of them is quite normal but that also make us worry. And we think too much for them whom we care most 🙂.

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Yes. It is those we care for most and who we think about too. We hope to keep seeing them around us always and nothing should happen to them.
Thank you, Intishar 😎

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That was a very difficult time for your family, @princessbusayo. It was nice to read that years have passed and your sister is now grown up and healthy! Thank you for sharing your creative nonfiction post in The Ink Well, and for reading and commenting on the work of other community members.

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It's so terrible when a child is sick and suffering. I'm glad your sister recovered fully!

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this is a very common illness in America... I got it when I was 5 years old - and it is EXTREMELY contagious. I'm so surprised that no one else in your family got it! Especially your mom - since seh was touching her

Here it is not such a scary illness - because we are so familiar with it - but its very uncomfortable.

But it is better to have it as a child - instead of as an adult - so you know what many parents do??? When I was younger, if it was discovered that a chlid had it - many parents sent their children to go play with them!!! so that they coud all catch it early adn get it over with

since it is rare that you would get this illness more than once in life. so they thought - better to expose the children early and get it over with! really!!!

now? there are vaccines against chickenpox that are given to children early here - so its much more rare.

I can imagine that you were so scared to watch all this play out!! and you know what impressed me??/ you! as a sister!!! wishing it was you so that you could take the pain for your sister

you're a true sister, princess :)

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many parents sent their children to go play with them!!! so that they coud all catch it early adn get it over with

Really? I never knew about this. Since it's not something so scary that could lead to death, I think they did the best by exposing kids to such disease at a young age so it can be gone forever. This is strange reading this from you momma 😬😬

I guess we were lucky it isn't spread to us, especially my mom who was around her all the time. That moment was scary as I saw my sister's condition. It was so hurting, itching all over her and I could feel her pains.

Thank God there is a vaccine to prevent that from happening.

Thank you so much Momma for sharing with me your experience too. I really appreciate 👏👏🤗

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