The Reasons most Ladies are vulnerable in relationships + why they need Emotional Intelligence in Relationships

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Most relationship aren't meant to last forever or long than expected, although everyone wants to be in a relationship that's sweet and enjoyable as well as a long lasting one in that matter.

One of the ways to make a relationship last longer is to tolerate each other's flaws and try to understand the character and temperament of your partner. On the other hand, many relationships don't last long because most people expect a lot from their partners who in one way or another disappoints their expectations.

It's crystal clear that in a failed relationship the demand folks is usually affected the most. It's natural because the female forks is very emotional and usually loves with the whole of their hearts. If I may assume, 90% of the female forks go into relationships with the whole of their hearts, while 10% of ladies enter into relationships with their heart controlled by them, although my statistics may not be true but the fact still remains that ladies are very emotional.

I don't know if the reason of the above is because of past relationships experience or not but most of them are wired to think like that, while others learn from other people's mistakes in relationships.

3 reasons why most women are vulnerable in relationships

• personality type:
  Most Ladies are very expressive in their relationships, while others are not. Being expressive sometimes can cause the man to become afraid of the relationship and might make him leave the relationship. The one's that are not expressive usually suffer from depression, which could lead to emotional trauma. It should be noted that personality type can make or mere your relationship.
• low self esteem:
  Low self esteem can make one suffer in a relationship and many female forks where I come from are suffering from low self esteem or inferiority complex. Low self esteem can also cause emotional trauma.
• what the society say about the female forks
  Like in Africa, the females are classified as weak and the has become part of the norms in the society and every woman from childhood have been told and addressed as the weaker vessel. Weakness isn't supposed to be in the gender but in those that can't take responsibility for themselves.

Why you need Emotional Intelligence in Relationships?

Emotional intelligence (otherwise known as emotional quotient or EQ) is the ability to understand, use, and manage your own emotions in positive ways to relieve stress, communicate effectively, empathize with others, overcome challenges and defuse conflict.Source

To me emotional intelligence shows the maturity level of a person in a relationship, most women as well as male counterparts don't know how to manage situations in their relationships, most of them depends on wrong advise from friends to help them settle issues, which leads to destroying the relationship.

Why we advise people in relationships to have empathy, we also encourage them to make use of their senses in handling situations in their relationship.

Most people only use their emotions during decision making in rough times in their relationships, but it's also okay if they think and rethink before taking that serious decisions they want to take in their relationships because the kind of decision you take will determine the outcome of your relationship.

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