Cheating? It's a no no for me.

I have come to realize that so many people tend to cheat their way out of something just because they want to achieve some things and they feel like the fastest way to get whatever they want is by cheating. This is why some people would never like to do business or have relationships with people who are like this because they do their things and dubious ways. No one on earth will want something and will pray for it to come late. When we need something, we always want it to come as fast as possible but if it does nkt, we should take a chill pill. We should try other methods, strive harder and also be prayerful instead of us to cheat. Cheating is very bad.

Well, I used to be one of those who love to cheat before but I began to hate it when people were doing it to me. I'm that girl who lacks patience. I want my things to be done as fast as possible but there are times when the only option I have is to wait and work hard to achieve what I want instead of cheating. There is something that happened to me sometime ago and it even made me disgust cheating the more.

There was a time when I was using two phones. I had an iPhone as my second phone. I used to call it my small phone because it was cheaper than my android. I bought the iPhone because I was using the android for my online businesses and the workload was too much on it so I just wanted to reduce the workload on that phone but at the end of the day, I didn't use the phone because I could not cope with using two phones at once. It was very stressful.

Then a friend of mine told me he needed to buy a small iPhone and suggested that I sell my iPhone to him. It was not a bad idea so I went for it and I even sold it below the normal price. He was talking to me as if he was going to pay the money immediate he collects the phone from me and when I gave my phone to him, he said he was going to send it that night. I began to call him ceaselessly and he didn't pick.


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If he eventually picks my call, he'd give me one excuse or the other. I was so pained because I already planned to buy cryptocurrency with the money but the plan went wrong. Well, he eventually paid the money after one year and he even paid installmentally. Also, he did not complete the payment and thaat event made me dislike him till today.

That was cheating. What would take him to tell me the truth and tell me that he did not have the money and he was going to pay me later? That means he's someone who loves to cheat everyone he meets and in everything he does. That's how I see him now. I felt bad but now imagine that I wanted to use the money to pay my school fee and that was why I sold my phone. You know things like this happen so we should try to be truthful and sincere.

Cheating is not a good way of life
It is very bad
If you are one of those who cheat, stop it!
It is ruining other people.



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Ah, some people don't have one words!

He should've gave you your money on the spot or week or less than that but whole year and than coming up with installment it's just too much.. feel bad to hear about it!

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It was very bad and I did not even use the money well when I got it because I didn't really need it again
Thanks for visiting

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Post reviewed and approved for an Ecency boost. 😊

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Hello,

Mnh... I would like to offer you another way of looking at it.

I think it's good that you say you've cheated too. In fact, many of the virtues one knows are violated by oneself. There is actually no one who has never sinned, so shake hands.
Since we are all sinners and will probably accumulate a few more of them in our continuing lives, I would say that the incident you describe can be considered a kind of compensation for your own past cheating. What goes around, comes around, it is also said.

Since it is not always the same people who take something away from us, it is not they who give it back, but it is others who give us something that we did not expect. So we receive something from here and get something taken away from there.

If you look at your life as a whole, it may look like a see-saw that is always going up and down and we are always somehow involved in a balancing that sometimes favours us and sometimes disadvantages us.

It is also said that one should separate the act from the doer. Each act or omission stands on its own, so I would disagree with you about that part:

That means he's someone who loves to cheat everyone he meets and in everything he does.

It's more likely that he doesn't do and isn't like that. He tested a boundary on you, that's right. Just as you have tested yours on others. You would be scared if people were talking about you in the way that you are a cheater to everyone, everywhere.
There were and will be situations in which you were virtuous, just like him. Just like all others.
:) Greetings to you.

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