This Growth Matters To Me.
As humans, one good thing about us is that we will always grow. Growth is part of humanity and that is why we change or grow physically and mentally. I’ve always heard that some people refuse to grow mentally but I still don’t believe. I guess people say that because we tend to see some people who are very old but still act like babies, lol. If you decide to check yourself, you’d realize that you are not the same as you were last year. Even if the change is little, you’d surely be different. It may be physically, mentally, financially and so much more.
What is one major growth I’ve done within the past year?
One habit I have inculcated and learnt this year is letting things grow and I feel that’s a form of growth. I was that girl who is somewhat clingy and emotional. Once I get emotional about something, I begin to get too attached to it and I find it difficult to let go. It may not be only people. It can be anything that when I lose it, I may not want to move on or even fall sick.
It may be anything. It may be a friend, money, heartbreak or anything in general that I can lose or may be the person is not willing to have something with me again. During this process, I realized that I usually find it difficult to do other things with my life. I’d find it difficult to snap out of what I have been thinking about. I thought about it due to something that happened to me sometime last year. As someone who wants to be successful, I should be able to live with things like and maybe act like nothing happened instead of taking almost everything to heart.
Then, I began to learn how to things off my heart so I can always attend to other important things in my life. My only remedy was music but no matter how much I love music, I will still get tired of it after a while so I just learnt to always accept what has happened and move on. Right now, I no longer stay long on things like I used to since my only focus is making money and living a good life.
What does this growth mean for you?
This growth means a lot to me. If I could let go of things, I feel I am one step foward. I’d be able to focus on important things in my life. The crazy thing is that these things I think about are mostly meaningless and it would not make sense to be thinking about unreasonable things at this stage of my life. This growth has helped me to recognize the useful things and the ones that are not adding to my life. Right now, I have a limit to the way I focus or attend to things that are not really adding to my life.
It is not an easy journey and I still feel that way at times but the good thing is tht I already stated what I wanted since the beginning of this year and I gave myself a deadline so that’s what’s helping me. I’m grateful for growth.
Maybe not like babies, but kids. And this is not necessarily bad. There are multiple things between silliness and seriousness. Even the mix of the two.
There is no such thing as "too attached to it". Only someone or something that you love. This is normal. This shows that you are human with feelings.
Have a nice day and have a nice weekend.
All the best. Greetings and much love from Tenerife, Canary Islands, Spain.
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Trying to ignore how you feel about a thing, especially from someone you respect or like would literally be hard.
If it was someone you didn't even know, you'd forget about it in few minutes. It happens to me too, I try not to ignore it and it leaves me early.
It may sometimes make sense to take the hard way, but the goal should always be reached with both feet on the ground.
Always using your last ounce of strength and leaving yourself full of scratches - that's not really a good thing in the long run.
It's hard to process our emotions when things happen especially to those we love. Feeling sad or grief is normal but how we get out of them at some point can be challenging. I wish you the best as you work on growing.
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