RE: We live to achieve 'social-standard'!

Good to see that you got it. I always say LIVE. Don't live on other's standard. If you feel you are doing good, you are successful and happy. Take it, appreciate it. No matter how people talk about you.
Yeah, it's a disease and we have to find the cure.
I always tell my 3 years old, you don't have to be ' anything'. You just need to find happiness. Mom and Dad (and Allah) will love you even if you don't become 'anything'.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts!