Don't Give Too Much Pressure On Your Kids To Choose Something To Make Money
Every parent wants to see their kids be successful in their life. There is no doubt you as a parent want to do your best for your kids. You raise your kids and see them grow. When you see a smile on your kids' faces that makes you happy.
Now your kids are not kids anymore. They are grown up. Still, do you give too much pressure on your kid to choose something as a career to make money? It sounds ridiculous that parents give pressure on their kids to do some specific things to make money.
When you are 18, you have to take care of yourself. You are on your own and you have to decide what to do and what not to do in your life. You may not expect your parents to take care of you then.
Well, it's also true that parents are worried about their kids, no matter how big they are. They are always kids to their parents. They think about their kids' future. Maybe that's why parents prevent their kids from choosing something as a career to make money. They think there is no future doing that. Instead, if their kids do some specific things, their future will be bright.
The way you see things as a parent can be wrong. Maybe it was not possible to do that in the past, but not anymore. A lot of things are changing and people can do things that seem impossible to do before. around the world. So what your kids want to do, they can do better in that.
You need to allow your kids to learn on their own. You can guide them, but let them learn. Maybe the best thing they can learn from their mistakes. You are not doing any good by putting too much pressure on your kids. Your kids may listen to you and do the thing that you like going against their desire and dream. But will your kids be happy to choose that as a career?
You as a kid should talk to your parents and let them know what you want to do as a career to make money and why this is best for you. Hope your parents understand you. If you see any situation like this, you can resonate with that. What if your parents don't listen to you? Yes, it can also happen.
It is better to make a temporary distance from your parent at the beginning than to blame your parents for the rest of your life for ruining your life. Maybe you do what your parents want, and later you regret and blame your parents. You can remove the distance and make a good relationship with your parents later. And they will be happy when they see you are doing great in your career.
So what do you think? Please feel free to leave your comments. Thank you for reading this post. That's it for now. I'll be back with another post.
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As a parent to a 23 and 18 year old, I will say that this is good stuff. I will counter and say that some pressure needs to be made in some cases if the kids are not wanting to pursue anything. But it’s like I am trying to stress to my daughter turning 18 on the 10th… tomorrow at the time of writing this, that she doesn’t have to settle on a career, learn to make money from what you love to do.
Some pressure is good, and that helps kids to be disciplined and accountable. There should be a balance in how much pressure you can give for what. Thank you @hivehustlers for your feedback. I appreciate that!
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Anytime!
You need to allow your kids to learn on their own. You can guide them, but let them learn. Maybe the best thing they can learn from their mistakes.
Well said my friend. Though I think good parenting is a myth. There is nothing like an ideal proposition for it. But you pointed out some of the crucial ones.
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It is up to you how you raise your kids. There is a generation gap. When a kid gets support from their parents to explore and choose, nothing can hold him/her back from moving forward. Thank you @chrysanthemum for your comment!
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True indeed. You are welcome..
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There are parents who force their own personal dreams to their children. I remember seeing this in a movie but it also happened to me and my brother. Our father wanted as to be a policeman because of his obsession to the uniform and on firearms.
My brother accepted it, I didn't. I had to stop for a few years as our father forced me to stop. Funny thing is, he is NOT the one paying for our school. 😅
I see similar things happening to other children. Their parents took away the most important lesson they could give their children when they decide for them all of the time. I believe parents should act more like teachers, advisors and supporters to their children specially in choosing their career.
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I completely agree with you, @thecuriousfool.
It is unfortunate that some parents force their personal dreams on their kids instead of letting them be what they want to be. No parents want their kids to be unhappy, but sometimes they do what they are not supposed to do for their children's bright future.
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