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It seems that eyes never lie. By looking at people's eyes you can understand his or her exact feeling pretty goodly more than listening to the voice of the person. Sometimes people lie to escape their emotions what they try to make private. Sometimes people lie when they don't feel comfy to share with others. For a certain period of time, someone might get hurt through your words or other activities although he might not express his emotion and feeling through his words or doing any other activities. How do you read his emotion during the time, do you know?

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Well, I feel he makes an effort to escape eye contact with you. Being a victim he might somehow skip the place as you knew nothing. But you will hold his artifice strategy to come out from the place If you look at his two eyes anyhow. Most of the time I got those swift eyes and hold the emotion perfectly. Every individual human being has a unique way to think, a unique way to judge the same thing although those come in brains through views.

What is the procedure of all the things, have you ever imagined? It all comes from the perfect combination of eyes and brains, right? Well, I believe the combination of those two things makes a perfect view of what we look at or what we think by noticing something. Everyone has the same structure, similar eyes for seeing a particular thing, and a similar brain for judging a thing although hardly views being similar among them and this is the thing with is the most exciting to me.

People always defend their views no matter what the thing is or what the situation is, they stand on their views with core and fight so hard to win the battle of views. I know, defending our views is a natural process but is this always the right thing to do? Sometimes you might know, sometimes you saw the thing might not exactly the same you what thoughts you preserve in your brain. Sometimes no need to win a battle of views, do you know why?

It affects a relationship very badly. It was a great bonding in friendship, bonding in blood as like we called the relationship as siblings just because of holding inappropriate concepts and wrong views. Yes, It is pathetic when someone broke relation of blood by holding a wrong concept and went far away from each other, right? Both souls feel the pain in the depth of their hearts but they hardly come to each other to reconcile.

The clash of views damage lives, and damage a lively family just because they do not respect other's views or do not pretend to feel other words. Holding a wrong concept for year after year they miss precious moments to meet with each other. They might feel that they both were in the wrong view and judge the incident inappropriately but it would be too late. We know our life is limited and If you cut off a beloved person from your life just because of viewing a thing erroneously, you will get suffer in your and the most important thing is, at the last point you got that will not get enough time to spend.



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Even if that’s the case, there is a thin border line beyond "individual" pov.
And people whose sense is efficient enough to think about an "assessment" about the approaches, should they know how to find that thun border line

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The thin border makes a huge gap in a bonding that's I would aay.

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That thin border line doesn’t make impact or has anything to do in mortal emotional boundaries.
It’s sort of a calculator that helps people to choose when they feel lost or cannot seek for a solution

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The clash of views damage lives, and damage a lively family just because they do not respect other's views or do not pretend to feel other words.

This is very true and it happens a lot. Buh like you said There is no need to win the battle of views

This is the best thing I have seen so far this morning and I have learnt a lot from it, thanks for sharing this interesting piece🤗.

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This little sense of "eye contact" is a very important term when it comes to social norms and that of dealing with people home and mostly in outside. I would say, even we dont know how the circumstances going to be once we are in the spot ; but peoples lives and conditions channel through eye contact.

Thanks for sharing such good point, 👍

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Yeap, It is one of the best thing to fathom others emotions. Thanks for stopping by :)

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You are welcome, 💝

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We just have to learn to respect everyone's views. Though we'll still hold on to ours, we shouldn't force others to see things the way we do. This is maturity, understanding individual differences and not let our varying views break the bond and ruin out relationship with others.

Great post, thank you for sharing.

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Thanks for stopping by :)

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