IF YOU LEARN TO STUDY IN DETAIL THE BODY LANGUAGE OF PEOPLE YOU WILL BE SURPRISED AT WHAT IT DELIVERS!
Whatever the situation, language is the most wonderful means that the creator has given us to communicate, since we can do it with our listeners through words, and, from those that evoke their intonations, rhythms and intensities, but also with that eloquent mute language that is the corporal expression this language is really wonderful!.
For example, in everyday life, a person can, without speaking to us, communicate to us an impression of sympathy, hostility, contempt or indifference, just by the movement of his shoulders, hands or eyebrows, because really in every speaker the gesture rivals the word
so that gestures show us and convey a message to us
¿Did you know that when you communicate and you do it through gestures, that is, through body language, you compromise your emotions?
There are different types of nerves that are manifested through body language that you cannot hide and they give you away, so body language is very important when we want to transmit positive situations but very compromising when we use it with negative things and it gives us away and not only the emotions but it compromises your feelings
Emotions are the neurophysiological reactions triggered by an internal or external stimulus
In this order of ideas, emotions are frequently undervalued in favor of reason, which in theory always gives us sanity so as not to end up "messing up"
However when we apply body language we always end up messing up some things that we do but we do not want to be discovered since 90% of our communication is non-verbal language reason why our body says much more about us than we can express in words
¿What am I talking about
For example, did you know that when you lie, your body language can give you away? When we speak we also make gestures and gestures are complements to the word and in rare cases substitutes for it. We could also say that they are the movements or purposes carried out by any part of the body, be it the head, the shoulders, the arms, or the hands to reinforce or demonstrate what we say.
There are many people who lie and their body language betrays it and although sometimes it is not easy to guess the lies or that there may be people who do not know how to identify it, yes, there are experts who help us detect them as well as observe those around us and study the language body which will allow us to discover all those people who are not being honest with us.
We must remember that lying is a behavior learned and intrinsic to the human being but that it is not a value at all and unfortunately many do it continuously
Although many people present nervous tips when communicating, the liar manifests itself more broadly because something phenomenal also occurs in the brain that involuntarily leads him to gestures sometimes involuntary
In this regard, the Mexican psychologist and graphologist Roberto Espinosa affirms "the same thing happens with body language." "When you feel threatened, the body begins to speak" and make gestures because all lies generate a psychophysiological reaction
It is scientifically proven that in a threatening situation the sympathetic system is triggered and the body is alert. "All lies generate a psychophysiological reaction. And if the observer is well trained, he sees it ”, Espinosa wields.
In this sense, according to the scholars of the subject, the universal signals to detect lies among them stand out:
These are the so-called points of conflict such as: scratching the nose, the head, touching the chin, slightly lifting the shoulders, tilting the head, keeping the body erect, among others, which are not "synonymous with lies, but indicators of a conflict" These are alterations in the person's code of normal behavior.
In language communication, body activity is very important and necessary because someone who addresses the public rigidly or seems immobile, keeping an impenetrable face while speaking, is giving rise to monotony for example, in a speaker, the audience appreciates the meaning of the speaker's facial expression, the way he moves, the gesture of the head, arms, shoulders and hands and really the shoulders and hands the slight contraction of a shoulder or the expressive movement of a hand are sometimes more revealing than a hundred words since the speaker is seen before he is heard that it is the first visual impression that he produces in the auditorium.
It is worth saying that although body language is very significant in the field of communication and in addition to making the speaker a pleasant conversation, starting with gestures whenever necessary according to the topic to be discussed, it can also serve as a key to detect lies
Bibliography consulted: The mind is wonderful lavanguardia.com/vida.
