OUR EMOTIONAL WOUNDS CAN HURT OUR CHILDREN

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Unfortunately, many adults have developed various emotional problems for many reasons that sadly live in us today and it is an ongoing struggle that we battle when it comes to becoming a mother or father and having to deal with it in front of our children because we really and internally do not we want them to live the same but sadly if we do not seek medical or spiritual help these wounds and emotions will betray us in front of our children

The emotional wounds of adults are very difficult to manage but not impossible if we put the will out of love for our children

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Many adults who go through this situation for the most part have kept it quiet and have tried on their own to struggle with this attitude for many years but it has all been in vain since when they realize their children have been hurt with their emotions

A childhood in a bad state affects adulthood and if today any of us lives an emotional wound, it is an opportunity to try to solve this reality so that it does not influence the relationship with our children.

Maintaining a healthy childhood is of utmost importance in order to have a healthy adult

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It is not easy to maintain emotions when we have been hurt in our childhood by situations such as: treason, humiliation, mistrust, abandonment, injustice ... however as responsible adults we must be aware of our situation and not hide them but face them in order to heal them I insist all for the love of our children

In this order of ideas, it is important to note that many times when we realize that our children are affected by our emotions, we feel overwhelmed and often pointed out by their attitude, since generally many pay attention to the actions or behavior of children. But you never reflect on what parents may be suffering from going through various emotional wounds that they have not been able to handle.

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It is there where we must be evaluated with medical or spiritual help because if we do not attack the emotional wounds of the parents we will always have children affected by our past wounds but parents do not have to feel guilty when we suffer these wounds, on the contrary we must fill ourselves with courage and face them with responsibility

About this According to
Lisa Bourbeaur, accepting a wound means looking at it, observing it carefully and knowing that having situations to resolve is part of the human experience.

As adults, when we become parents, we want the best for our children when they arrive and we should not feel guilty at all, as I pointed out previously for something that hurt us in the past and did us a lot of damage. What we have is to face life and Let our dreams come true through our children and heal our hearts by reflecting on how we were hurt, but today there are reasons to heal and it is our children who urge us to heal our hearts.

Injuries in childhood have a great weight in adult life and really those who suffer, which are many, have to assume our attitude and avoid hurting our children, how do I do it? What measures should i take? How do I prevent my injuries from hurting my children?
If I am hurt and I have not yet healed, how can I avoid affecting my children?

Parents we have a lot to do the first thing we must do is to become aware of our situation and empower ourselves with our will, a positive and strong will where we come to assume that in the way that we are leading our life it is not normal because we cannot live with with a broken soul the soul rotate with a wounded heart because we would hurt others and we need a change of emotional state that is positive and fruitful all for the love of our children to our family for the love of ourselves