Marriage is a magical bond

There is an old saying in subcontinent that marriage is that sweet who eats it, regrets and who doesn’t that too gets disappointed. Either way, you have to regret in the end lol. Well, its just a funny thing and its not true because in the end, your decision matters a lot. Every individual has their own way of thinking regarding marriages and I think, it totally depends on cultures, religions and believes. In my country, we take these matters very seriously. It’s a process in which two families unite, not only couples. New generation is adopting western culture but still more than 60% of marriages are arranged in Pakistan.

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My Wedding Reception Pic

I never wanna get married. I don’t know why but I don’t feel like getting married. I used to think it’s a mess and I don’t have that much control in myself to handle those pressures after marriage. However, I am the youngest and my elder bros were living a happy married life but still I used to think I am not capable of such skills. I have a fear of married life. There were too many ifs in my thoughts, what if that happen what if this happen, how I am going to react to that or blah blah. In short, I used to think my life will change as a prisoner and I will lack freedom.

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I was never into girls so never had girlfriend nor any girl proposed me to be my girlfriend hehehe. But yes, when I started my career and met many different girls, I was like I am happy alone, cannot afford their attitude or take such behavior. It is not that every girl is same, there are very nice and polite ones too but again, I am not that kind or a nice person, I used to be very aggressive and loud person. I am not sure if I am the same, I think I am changed but the correct answer can only be given by my wife hehehe
My eldest bro pushed me to get married and we had a long discussion, will share that some other day in some other post. Somehow, he managed to convince me and I agreed to get married with the girl of my Mother’s choice. I had an arranged marriage.

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I was very wrong about married life which I realized after getting married and getting blessed with kids. All the credit goes to my Mother who knows me very well and choose someone who can tolerate me. Honestly, I am not an easy person to live with. Mr. D always used to say that I am lucky to have such a supportive and lovely family and that is the reason my way of thinking is totally different from others. It is so true.

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Life partner plays an important role in every aspect of your life. I am lucky, my wife is very supportive and we both in no time built a very good understanding between us. It is not that we don’t have arguments or we never fight, but that’s the part of life. We get through those situations and we have to compromise in different situations, sometimes even in the ones which I don’t like but why not for the person who is there for me all the time, in my ups and down, no matter whatever the situation is. I have changed myself a lot and it is for good. Not just me, I know my wife changed her whole lifestyle and routine for me. Yes, it’s a prisoner life after marriage but for both of us and we do enjoy this prisoner’s life. She is not demanding and gets happy with whatever I do for her. With all those ifs I used to get scared, I didn’t face any such issues.

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I like taking her responsibility and it feels like she is my property. Parents and siblings are mine but there is one more person who gives me importance and takes good care of me, this feeling is awesome. I encountered too many other emotions and feelings and truly, it’s a blessing to have such a life partner. I don’t like to go on vacations alone, even I skipped official picnics just because I don’t wanna go alone and enjoy unless if its very important. So, I changed my lifestyle and myself for my wife. My experience of marriage is so far so good, its been four years now and I never thought a single day that I did a mistake or took wrong decision of getting married. Now, I used to encourage boys to get married as early as possible to have a better and happy life. Cheers!!!

All above pictures are mine but taken through different cameras at different occasions.



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Hayee! Sari hi baaty kar di. Lagta ha dil ay post likhi ha. :)

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g han, yeh post tu lazmi dil se hi likhni thi
i liked the topic very much because it is easy to write the reality instead of thinking of things which didnt happened, to write for a post.
yeh is liye kehna para k jo bhi maine likha hai woh sab such likha hai :P

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Congratulations to ypu and praying for more years to come! Ive been marriage for almost a decade already and never regretted it. Cheers!

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wow congrats to you too, a decade of happy married life. Thank you for the wishes.
Well , I missed one part: I hate those silly and nonsense arguments which ends up with me accepting whatever my wife said hahaha

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haha, women are always right, lols!
My husband and I are like that too, but we've matured now, our arguments can turn to laughter but he'll still do what I say.

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thats the magic of marriage, man always do what wife says lol

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Apne akhirkaar kha he Kiya laddu 😅, to kese hai aap 😉

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abhi tak tu zinda hon aur achi zindagi ji raha hon hahaha mujhe kuch zyada acha aur meetha laddu mil gaya shayed jis ki wajah se main buhut zyada hi khush hon hehehehe
ap apni batain, apne kha liya ya abhi khana hai

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He hee sahe hai sun kar accha chala. Mera abhe khana baake hai 😅

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jitni jaldi kha len utna acha aur meetha laddu mil jayega , best of luck with that laddu hahahah

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The old saying about the marriage is really true, if you don't want to marry then this society and also your parents gave you the lots of lectures about the importance of marriage😂, single life is peaceful but the marriage is necessary. You took the wise decision of getting married and these pictures telling us you have the strong bonding with your wife. Stay happy with her❤️.

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it totally depends on you how you build up your relation with your life partner and make good understanding. Thank you for the wishes :)

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I am glad you quickly got over the misconception that marriage restricts personal freedom and turns the sweet candy of the bachelor life into an addiction drug and recognized that marriage can bring its own unique sweetness and fulfillment.

While bachelor life can offer excitement, I wonder where that excitement would come from without a girlfriend 🤣. Unfortunately living abroad @saif-ul-wahab is also following your footsteps. 😁

TO BHAIYA, whether marriage is seen as a candy or an addiction, depends on one's perspective and personal experiences, but it is my personal experience that marriage is a source of happiness and fulfillment throughout life.

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its not misconception, I have seen people getting into those relationships where there is no way out lol all credit goes to my family support that I am living a happy married life, I obey my wife's order very well and thats the secret ingredient of my happy life.
Saif is following your footsteps and will get married early as you did hehehe

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Obedient hahaha.
Saif sahab ki ek girlfriend nahi hai meri to line hoti thi es age main

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Marriage truly has a great influence on who we are, our approach to life. Marriage teaches humility and selflessness.

Good script here

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Yes, Marriage teaches us so much more and I am still in learning process, there is a lot to come and I hope together with my wife, I can achieve a successful life. Thanks for liking my post :)

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Wow arranged marriage. Your mom made a great choice then! Usually our moms have pretty good judgement when it comes to knowing us and who would be suitable! Anyways I'm glad you had a change of mind and really got married and living your happily ever after now. Good luck and hope you have more happy years together with your wife.

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you are absolutely right, a Mother knows the best for her children and that is why I agreed with the choice of my Mother. Thank you for the wishes and i Hope you get the taste of this relation soon ✌️

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Wow, your mum really made a great choice for you. Perhaps I should call her a match maker? Hehehe
She sure knows you very well and made effort in find someone compatible with you. I am happy to hear this testimonies about your marriage so far..this is great... your wife is doing well and I hope you will keep treating her with respect

More joy and happiness to your home ✅😇

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I wanna live happily so I need to treat her like princess and obey her orders, thats the secret of happy life heheheh

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