The Only Way Is Some Alone Time

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Hi guys,

Welcome to my blog. Another exciting times with the hive Ghana community. Today I’ve decided to write about loneliness. Don’t get me wrong; it’s not what you think about.

I’ll be biased to say I know the time of person I am. I sometimes love the crowd and other times I hate the crowd. In my case it’s weird to me cause it seems I mostly hate the crowd even though I am the noisy type. Bring noisy and outgoing makes you look like the type who likes to be surrounded by people but it’s the opposite in my case.

Let me try and explain. Back in the university I used to lock myself up in the room with the lights off and it could get worse. If I didn’t want anyone to know am in the room i’d literally turn off the fan and stay in the heat just to make sure people think there is no one in the room.

I know it might sound weird for people who know the kind of person I am but that’s just how I feel most of the times. Since am a twin people wonder how I can do that with my brother around me. Well, at home my twin brother and I have separate rooms so we are mostly not in each others space.

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At the university we lived together in one room and it was very normal. We could be up and literally not say a word to each other and be in the room either sleeping or on our phones.

Releasing stress comes in different ways for different people. For some people getting along with people and having fun is their ideal way of releasing stress. For others they’ll literally prefer sleeping the whole day just to make up for the stress. In my case, I’ll be more stressed if I decided to sleep the whole time. I will on the other hand be less stressed if I just sat down doing nothing or just be quite on my phone the whole day.

I am an outspoken person so a lot of people wouldn’t believe this but that’s just how I am. A get away alone is my ideal way of a get away,even away from the wife or the girlfriend is my ideal getaway.