ecoTrain Question Of The Week #15: Why do we fall in love with certain people and why it is so hard to get over someone?

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This is what I call: "A two in one", Double question…




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Why do we fall in love with certain people?

From my perspective we are people who handle ourselves through three fundamental things, some of us are visual, others auditory and others kinesthetic, based on this I consider that we fall in love for multiple reasons, including:

VISUAL people: they fall in love with the physical appearance of the person who is usually very attractive, a beautiful face, eyes of unique color and penetrating gaze, crazy hair, sensuality and thus, everything that may seem beautiful in their sight will make them fall in love of that person.

Auditory people: They are those who generally tend to be super in love because that person speaks beautifully, is very polite, seems like an announcer or the girl has a very sweet voice and to complete it she sings beautiful, the gentleman is a flattering gallant and says everything the girl wants to hear and then hopelessly IN LOVE.

Kinestec people: It is the one that physical contact leaves reflected on the wall, a hug, a rose, a caress, that skin-to-skin contact that makes love come in and never leave.

I think that these are the things that make us fall in love, even a mixture of two or three, but there will always be one that stands out and it will be the reason why we mainly love him, in addition, a predominant factor is the need not to be alone and have that someone who gives you love and you too.

I personally think that two are better than one.

Why is it so difficult to forget someone?

To forget! I believe that we never forget people, they are lived experiences that are housed in our memory through memories, I usually use one that was used by the owner of KODAK and is: “Remembering is living” and additionally I put “We create memories, never to be forgotten ”Why? Simple! The memories are embraced by the emotions and transport us to the past, so it is that we should classify what memories we bring to memory to know what emotions it brings with it since this will make Love, Hate, Anger, sadness, happiness and others come to the fore.

If we are always remembering that person it is very possible that we live trapped in the past, even more so if the memories are negative we do not become masochistic when we remember.

I think that we do not forget people but if we can make little come to our memories by mainly changing our daily life habits trying to modify them in the most positive way possible; If we don't read books, let's do this, if we just ride in a car let's start walking a bit and enjoy greeting new people and thus improve.

Everything is a matter of time and balance.

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