How can we apply assertive disregard to our conflicts?

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Indifference applied in a positive way can be an excellent strategy for when we need to solve our personal relationship conflicts, we say then that this way of applying indifference could be a form of assertive indifference.

Although we may have applied assertive indifference without realizing it in a specific area of our life, I can say that the idea behind the application of assertive indifference is that it can be applied to any environment that is executed under a given social interaction.

Assertive indifference can be an innate behavior of us in front of any type of reaction that comes from the outside and that is expressed before us as an unpleasant stimulus, it automatically becomes a behavior that blocks us voluntarily allowing at the same time that what is happening from the outside does not affect us at all.

When we care about the way in which the outside behaves with us and we want that the behavior of the outside is as friendly as possible with us, we must have a reaction every so often eventually so that when the outside behaves unpleasantly with us, we let him know that we do not care when we really do care, that indifference manifested in us assertively will make the external environment resumes and correct in its attempt to make us feel bad, and thus we will have won the fight using assertive indifference as a tool.



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