Importance of being more convincing in our personal relationships

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The conviction is that intrinsic feeling that we have to think firmly that we can achieve some task, but often to achieve many things in life we have to convince many people of our capabilities which is not a very simple task, since everything that revolves around us is a society where distrust abounds, and it is not less than we can expect because there are people who cheat because they want to achieve their goals based on their interests.

The other thing really to take into account when we want to be convivial is that when we show to be determined before others, other people can misinterpret our situation of wanting to demonstrate our conviction to others, this misinterpretation is that there is a probability that our determination is an attack or threat to the way of thinking of others, which is why it is important to know how to properly consider how we will express to others our conviction of knowledge.

When we want to show ourselves to others in a convincing way, it is most likely because we want to make known something that only we know but we want to expand it, however, this convincing message must be previously studied according to the following variables:

• Importance of the message: if the message is really very important, then we must be cautious in such conviction, showing ourselves friendly without imposing anything would be a very intelligent way to attract attention and perhaps make the other person show interest in learning about our message.

• Choosing the right way to transmit the message: it is very important to know if the message is better to give it in writing, by text message, a phone call, fax, or to get to the person to give the message personally. Generally, if the message requires a lot of details and explanations, it is most likely that it is better to give the message in person, however we cannot rule out other ways, and it all depends on how we make a previous evaluation and know what is best for us.

The conviction to transmit a message and convince others also depends on the impression we give to the other person, because to tell the truth how are we going to show conviction talking to another person about a subject that we do not know, we really must achieve by all means that the other person feels safe and that he really thinks and is sure that what we are telling him is so true because it is something we know and master to the fullest.