In whom do we place our trust?

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People interact under a social core that allows us to interact in terms of social psychology, that is, many times such interaction depends on the collective way in which we all act under a certain behavior.

In this process of interaction we all need to have confidence, without confidence it would be difficult to move the world as it moves, when a majority group or simply a single person has confidence, it is because it is able to act under a certain circumstance and at the same time allows him to think properly under a certain circumstance.

Under my personal perspective there is no better way than to place confidence in ourselves, and I do not say this because it is indeed what we hear the most in other people, but intrinsically confidence is strongly argued under the simple fact of the execution of actions and values, now what better than ourselves to take our own actions and not leave it in the hands of others, and also what better to act under the influence of our own values than having to place confidence in another person of which we do not know under what values and morals has been formed.

Everything sounds very nice in that order of ideas, however not all actions can be executed by ourselves, so at different times of our lives we must place our trust in other people, now perhaps you ask yourself: Who to choose?

There is no single answer and that may seem convincing, and is that it is difficult to know the intentions of other people, however when we place trust in another is because we simply expect results, so it ended up concluding that the trust simply have the fundamental principle of generating them for ourselves, and in the case of needing other people to whom to place the trust simply we must give it in who we believe deserves it, and wait for results to see if it was worth placing that trust.

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Best regards @sandracarrascal

Trust reinforces each of our actions and the way we value our fellow men, to lose trust is to lose the faith we have in someone, I agree with your argument the first thing is to have confidence with myself, because this will allow us to have inner peace and somehow also allow us to manage our emotions. Good post, be well.

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Thank you Luis, always giving good wishes, certainly the first confidence is the one we feel for ourselves, thank you for your noble comment. Greetings

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Hi @sandracarrascal. Certainly the first person we should trust is ourselves, in our capabilities and virtues. And as far as other people are concerned it is difficult to have a unique reason to trust another person, maybe we start from their actions and attitudes if we know them previously and if not, it is up to us to decide if we simply trust hoping for the best.

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I am very right friend in what you say, start with ourselves when it comes to confidence is the best, greetings and thank you for your contribution.

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Trust is very important for personal relationships, as well as for the achievement of objectives and goals. Without it we are automatons who wander alone thinking that the world revolves around us or that it is against us. Lack of trust also generates unfounded fears. In my case, since I am autistic, it is essential because it is the bond that unites us with neurotypical people, since we have difficulty with social interaction. @tipu curate 2

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Wow my friend @joseph1956, I loved your comment, you really give a very interesting complement to what I wanted to convey in this post, the trust of an added value for interpersonal relationships, certainly that is so if we look at it from that perspective. Thank you for your valuable comment.

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Hello @ sandracarrascal, a very interesting topic on trust, as you very well expressed in your article we must first trust ourselves to be able to generate confidence in others, there are times when we ourselves put barriers to perform an activity or achieve a proposed goal and this is often because we ourselves do not believe in what we are doing, ie, we do not have confidence and this makes much of our life projects are not achieved.

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Hi @carlir.

That's true, when we do not trust in what we do, we hardly achieve the goals we set, so it is essential to deposit confidence in ourselves first, greetings friend and thanks for sharing.

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Trust is one of the most exquisite human values, it is sublime to be able to trust and although in many occasions it is betrayed also in many more it is valued and we can offer it without hesitation. Good post, very nice to read it

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I like your point of view, because it teaches me that it is important to trust regardless of betrayal, because trust gives us that peace of mind so longed for, thank you friend for sharing such a nice comment in this post, greetings.

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I really think placing our trust in other people comes back to us with a lot of dissapointement, when it comes to designating duties we just have to trust a few person's to help us handle them.

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Hello @gbenga.

Certainly friend the disillusionment is an aspect that we must consider and know how to handle when we need to place trust in others, perhaps we will handle that aspect a little better when we know that it is normal betrayal in humans. Greetings and thank you for sharing your opinion through this comment.

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We must have confidence that we can solve any situation that comes our way and not depend on a superior force, a God or a friend who comes to solve life.Well, we ourselves must overcome obstacles and find innovative solutions to problems.In this sense, it is important to have sufficient security and motivation that we can achieve everything we set out to do.

It only requires having a discipline and habits that maintain the scenario where we develop with a positive mentality.

This attracts leads to success

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I really liked your phrase of security and motivation, it is true, certainly confidence must go hand in hand with motivation, and thus make good decisions, greetings and thank you for your comment.

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Hi @sandracarrascal no doubt sometimes we are made to delegate functions by the simple fact that we distrust others, it is because trust plays a relevant role in teamwork. Thanks for your input

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Hello @madridbg

Trust and betrayal are very common in the normal activities of a job, because sometimes we assign an activity to who we think can do it, but really what we are wrong is ourselves as leaders who assign activities to who does not know how to execute them, in that the error is of who assigns. Greetings friend and thank you for your comment

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Hello @sandracarrascal ! I called my attention to your publication, because certainly trust is an important factor in any individual and any relationship, I just want to argue that if it is very important from childhood to strengthen confidence in ourselves with the development and reinforcement of values, however as social beings we need others and there will be many circumstances in which we will have to place our trust in others, now what we have to strengthen is the ability and criteria to know how to choose who we trust ... thanks for your publication ....greetings!

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Hello @yossaeluz.

It is important to forge a confidence in ourselves since we are children, but we also need to trust others as a natural process of social interaction.

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Hello @sandracarrascal !...I called my attention to your publication, because certainly trust is an important factor in any individual and any relationship, I just want to argue that if it is very important from childhood to strengthen confidence in ourselves with the development and reinforcement of values, however as social beings we need others and there will be many circumstances in which we will have to place our trust in others, now what we have to strengthen is the ability and criteria to know how to choose who we trust ... thanks for your publication ....greetings!

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