WHY I READ WHAT I DID FOR LOVE BY JACOB BONTOGON AND GET TO KNOW THE CRAZY THINGS I DID FOR LOVEπŸ˜‹

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What are the crazy things you did for love? This was the first question popped in my head when I came across this book as I was scanning through the book shelf in a book store. Then memories popped on my head and I smiled. I even asked this question on my IG story because it piqued my interest to know other people's story. There were few of my followers who answered the said question that made me smile. I will also share mine right after I'll tell you my review and why I read this book entitled "What I Did For Love".


Aside from the sassy book cover that made me picked this one, the title itself draws my attention. The book was written in Taglish, both Tagalog and in English. I've read the synopsis at the back, and in some ways brought me back to those days that I was also afraid of loving someone. The main lead of the story is an NBSB or No Boyfriend Since Birth, named Leanya Marie Rhame who happens to meet someone that changed her life, but the funny thing is, it isn't the ending she wished she'll have.

The author of the book started writing and uploading his stories on wattpad which I found amazing too since I also wrote several stories on wattpad but the thing is, I haven't finished any of it yet. Given that the author is a guy, I wanted to read the book even more since most of the point of view of the story is from the main female lead. Being a hopeless romantic kind of girl, I was drawn to the story as it started but at the middle, I have a feeling though that it won't be the ending I wished to happen. Then reality strucks me, Ahh, this is it, it can actually happen in real life. The lesson of the story though, is to never get swayed easily but I know it's hard especially if you use your heart. I don't want to narrate the story since my friend @simpledemple will be reading the book next too. The story made me relate to myself since she end up being a single mom for a while but she had her own happy ending though.

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The male lead has his own point of view at the end, it's a special page that the writer wished to share. I just rolled my eyes as I've read his point of view. He's such a jerk! That's all I can say. And the book will tell you that everything happens for a reason. I bought the book for only Php175.00 and bought some too at Book Sale which I will be reading soon after this blog post.

So? What are the crazy things I did for love?

So many years ago, I met someone out of town, in Mindanao to be exact. We met during one of my modeling gig in Zamboanga and have been exchanging messages and calls. It was a long distance relationship for months. Three months after, I had the chance to travel to Mindanao, at Dipolog City for another gig. It was a nine (9)hours drive from the City of Zamboanga. And because I wanted to see him and to be with him, I went crazy and rode a bus right after our event. I traveled early dawn and arrived in the afternoon. I was alone but I was brave enough to travel given that I'm in Mindanao. There were a lot of checkpoints from here to there. My body was aching but for me, during that time, it was worth it. He picked me up at the bus station, with a chaperon πŸ˜‚. He brought me to a restaurant and we had a date then right after I went back to Dipolog, I traveled nine hours again. Imagine trying to travel so far but then you only get to be with that person for 4 hours?!! πŸ˜‚ And everytime I tried recalling it, it makes me laugh. Our relationship didn't last long, because it's a long distance relationship. Also, I was too young back then, I guess we were never meant to be. Also, always remember to never be afraid to love someone, because you will never experience what love really is if you wouldn't get hurt. ☺️ It may not turn out the way you want it to be, but trust me, God has a plan for you why he let those painful things happened to you.

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Going back to the story, I ended up not really that happy with the story line. Since, I wanted to read a happy ever after kind of story especially that I wanted to escape from reality when I'm reading books. I wanted to go to different places just by reading books and wanted to feel like I was the main character. In the book, the places was not really the ideal places I wanted to go. The beach scene wasn't really described well, especially the scenery. Still, I'm rating the book 7/10. I love that it reminded me of myself few years ago. ☺️

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This year, I wanted to read books more. I'd soon be posting about my plans and goals for this year. I'm manifesting that this year will be my year. ☺️

So, how about you? What are the crazy things you did for love? Let me know by leaving your comments below! Have a lovely day Hivers! 😘

Photographer: @simpledemple thank you memsh😘

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You know, you should just wear heels all the time, instead of doing that heel up pose in every photo.

Not complaining.

You do have nice legs. Probably why I notice.

LOL

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Hahaha thanks but I'm more of comfortable with sneakers. I used to wear heels before grown tired of it 😊 I appreciate it though. 😊

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.... the crazy things I did for love are.....

ay. wala man diayπŸ€ͺ koy love🀣🀣

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🀣🀣🀣 NBSB sad bya Ka πŸ˜‚

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Wow, ka-brave jud bitaw nimu kay nag-solo bus travel ka sa Mindanao, miss @sassycebuana, hehe. As for your question, I don't know if this qualifies as crazy, but it was a grand gesture for me: I wrote an entire one-act play for a guy I had a long-term relationship with at the time. It was inspired by the relationship, and it was good enough to be staged at Cebu Coliseum as one of the "Pi7o ka Drama sa Pebrero" produced by UC, Cornelio Faigao Playwriting Workshop, and OurHouse. We may not have lasted, but the story lives on. 😊

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Awww... That's really sweet. . You see,we all do so many things for love and later that memory makes us smile or even laugh. I'm just glad I did that, I have something to lookback πŸ˜‚πŸ˜ I haven't realized that it was dangerous for me to do that, given that wala Jud koi hanaw sa place haha.

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I think that's the power of love. It gives us the courage to do something we never would have done sober, hehe.

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OMG! I am from Dipolog too ahahaha! πŸ˜†
Ka relate jud ko ani, "hopeless romantic" bisan sa Kdrama dapat nice ang story and happy ending! 😍
What are the crazy things I did for love?

  • A lot! hahaha so chika na this soon. I love to read the book too. ❀️
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Hahahaha true! Did a lot of things too 🀣 Kana Lang pinaka highlight πŸ˜‚πŸ€£

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We really do crazy things when we fell in loveπŸ˜… Well, in my case it's worth it that I did those things way back junior high school hihi because I found my manπŸ’“

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I went to another island off the coast of Cebu and never told my mother I was seeing someone for the first time. It was one of the craziest I've done for love. I've been reckless and spontaneous those days. Now I laugh at it and glad I did what I think was necessary at that point in life. I now have hilarious stories to tell my kids one day hahaha

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Hahaha we just laugh it off everytime we remember those moments in our lives 🀣 Now we have a story to tell that's really true. πŸ˜‚ I did so many things, but that was the most hilarious thing though. The girl went to the boy not the other way aroundπŸ˜‚πŸ€£ I always do that before though, didn't know what self love means before but still I'm glad I did it. It's one of the many things that makes me better version of myself.πŸ₯°

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It's one of the many things that makes me better version of myself.πŸ₯°

exactly! Better off more than ten fold after that encounter. But really happy everything happened, it seemed we needed people to come and go so we can experience life in new heights. 😊

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So true! I'm a firm believer that everything happens for a reason. Now I'm ready to meet someone God has planned for me. Thanks to them 😊

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Ayay, sino kaya ang maswerteng lalaki na yan! hmmmmmm.... 🀣I'll pray you'll soon find that one man who could love you the way you should be loved. We all deserve all the love in the world! 😍

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Awwww .. πŸ₯° thank you Pat. Hoping, praying but not rushing πŸ™πŸ˜Š in God's perfect time.

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kumusta sassycebuana, :) I'm writing on this old post so I can ask for a little help/advice. You are a great poster IMO and I'm sure that is a lot of the reason why you can earn good rewards on ur post. I see that sometimes appreciator is one of those who upvote on ur post, but not always. It's usually the biggest one tho.

I remember seeing appreciator before when I was in steemit. I think there was something like it was a service that u could send it sbd (hbd now) and then it would upvote ur next post. Is that how it works? or can u please teach me how to use it.

Thanks,

ps. or maybe it's just I need to work on my posting skills and also grow my list of hivers that I know to upvote me? :P

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Hi Chinito, I am really sorry. I just came across your comment just now and I wasn't able to read this before when you commented. I didn't avail of that service and I just post whenever I have photos and something to talk about. If the post gets upvote from appreciator it's great but if not, still okay. My passion is writing and sharing my adventures here in the platform, I think it's best to post often, capture lovely photos to make your blog looks great for them to appreciate your work. Also, there's liketu now. They always appreciate your small efforts by just posting your photos πŸ˜‰

Best regard always!

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its all good. πŸ˜ŠπŸ€™ i asked a few hivers and got my answer..

turns out appreciator is just a large account that used to 'rent' out their upvote if people send then sbd, but no more. It's not cool to do that stuff anymore, so now they are just a big account who upvotes what they 'appreciate' :)

thanks for your answer tho.. πŸ’ͺπŸ˜ŽπŸ‘

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Hehe 😊 I'm embarrassed as I didn't know I've had this comment before. Thank you for always dropping by 😊

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