Hello Hive, I am Dad! | Welcome little Matthew!

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What a fun and interesting time it has been for me. I can finally say I am a dad. Still getting used to that. Still getting used to saying I have a little family now. Still getting used to my little baby... So many new things and I am in love with all of them.

As some of you know we were expecting our little one and he finally came on the 27th of January, at around 7:57 PM. Weighing in at 3.8kg with all ten fingers and ten toes. Happy. Healthy.


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The first few days were no fun at all. Here in Korea, there is a mom aftercare center. Basically, a hotel for mom after she gave birth. This includes all your meals and mom to be activities/training. The perfect time for mom to rest, medical attention only a call away, and the opportunity to learn the basics. A rather costly affair but one well worth it.

During this time I was only allowed to visit the hospital where little Matthew was being kept once a day, facetime with Matthew for about 2 minutes. With Covid rules in full swing, I was only able to see him for a very short time while he is safe asleep on the other side of the glass. This did however mean that I can only hold him after mom comes home from the aftercare center and I can finally have my family at home. A very long wait indeed...


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Finally a visit where he was awake!


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After we could finally bring him home we were both a little anxious and scared, but we were ready for whatever comes our way. Low and behold, we gave birth to a little angel! (I know every parent might think their kid is an angel, but ours really is!) He almost never cries. The routine was simple. He sleeps. He wakes up, makes a few grunts and starts moving a bit, farts, and then poops. After a quick diaper change and some feeding time he is straight to sleep again. In all honesty, I think I can count the total times he cried on my two hands.


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The first time I hear him cry was with bath time, although I blame myself here as I think the water wasn't hot enough for him. Lesson learned and the other bath time went much better. One step at a time. =)

As you can see he is not the biggest fan of bath time and I can totally understand. Now for us bath time is a quick exercise but I could not help but take a few pictures of him as he pulls the funniest faces while bathing.

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It took him a while but he eventually got used to it and relaxed a bit more, this has to be one of my favorite pictures so far.


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Now that it has been around 2 weeks that he has been home I thought it only appropriate to share him with all you here on Hive. It is strange, I know many people always want to show pictures of their kids and I for one didn't mind looking at a few pictures from time to time. But it gets old quick, you know, once you saw a baby you have seen it. Now that I have my own I feel he is different almost every day and I want to share every picture of him, I won't though. I prefer to enjoy him. He has become my new favorite show, I can just watch him for hours...


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Cleaned and fed he is wondering if he should make a quick poop or go to sleep... either way, we are ready!


What a joy he is so far. All my love concentrated in a little bundle...




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Well Done! His eyes are OPEN!!

Congratulations!

See, I am the first to comment! Even after this many years!

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First indeed, a nice little surprise. =P Thanks Took a while for him to open his eyes and what a blessing it was to see them for the first time.

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Hey @scrooger, a big congratulations, what a gorgeous little boy! Life certainly takes on a whole new meaning once we have our very own baby not so, like a brand new chapter in life's book, enjoy the little one :)

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Life does certainly change and there are so many new experiences that come with it. I feel very blessed and happy with our little one. =)

Thank you. =)

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Congrats. That's great news for you and your family. Best of luck going forward as the fun only starts now.

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Thank you so much, you are right, the fun is only beginning!

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Congrats! He's such an adorable little bundle, well worth the wait for him to come home

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Thank you, yeah is adorable and I just can't keep my eyes off of him. Little bundle of joy he is and well worth the wait indeed! =)

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I remember those scary days of bringing my first born home thinking what do I do now and where is the off button. Congratulations to you all and he is gorgeous. Enjoy every moment as they vanish very quick, :)

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So scary indeed, but I am happy to know that with each day it gets a little easier, each day presents its own challenges but overall I am having a blast with it. =)

Thanks for the kind words!

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It does until you have to deal with the teen years, get yourself prepared lol

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Congrats man and welcome to this amazing world Matthew!

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What a precious and adorable baby! Congratulations! That last photo is especially sweet! 💗

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Thank you, hehe. Yeah he sure has a variety of funny facial expressions. The last one was just a random one after he was all warm and cozy. Came out quite cute.

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Awwww
Congratulations!!
He is just so adorable and you embracing being a father is so precious
All the best with your lil angel :D

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Thank you so much. The feeling of being a dad is still sinking in and I have to remind myself of it constantly, that having a family is very real. Loving it so far.

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Congratulations!!! What a gorgeous big boy he is.

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Thank you! =) Very big indeed, 53cm and growing!

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Congratulations @scrooger! You have an adorable little bundle there.

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Thanks @gregory-f! Aappreciate it, he is indeed an adorable little fellow.

Hope you are doing well!

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