The Sister that I've Never Met

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Good day guys!

Every year, we visit a specific grave during the month of November and it's the grave of my supposedly older sister. Before I was born, my mom had a miscarriage. We were supposed to be a year apart. This made me think about all the what-ifs? like what if she was alive, would I still be here? And what would happen if she was here with us right now? This also made me feel bad for my parents especially my mom to go through something like that. She must have been traumatized by what happened. But I guess everything happens for a reason.

According to my mom, her name should have been Therese. I've always wondered what would it feel like growing up with an older sister compared to my older brother haha.

The photo above is her grave, and she is located behind the grotto of my grandmother's garden. We just visited her recently to pray. We call her the Angel of our Family. Whenever we go to her grave we also ask her to pray for us and to protect all of us. I would have never met her but I'm still thankful that we have an angel by our side.

And beside her where there are a bunch of flowers on the ground is where we buried our first dog named Custo. We used to call him our Youngest little brother, though he died when he was 16 years old and I checked online and that's equivalent to 80 y/o in human years. For some reason, I miss him so much already. Losing a loved one can hurt really bad. Though all the memories with them will always be cherished.

Thanks for dropping and Stay safe always!

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Wow... I'm really sorry for your losses. I think sometimes we feel the pain... it only shows how much we loved someone. As you said sometimes we just have to cherish those memories.

Just try to use the memories for strength and happiness although I know the feeling of missing someone and it is hard for it not to bring up sad feelings or just a huge rush of missing that individual and experiences you've shared... but that person would never want you to ever be sad instead to remember all the happy times. I am truly grateful to have met you in so many ways and through blogging it almost feels as if I have a deeper and deeper understanding of you.

As gamers we may sometimes forget that there is another human being on the other side of the computer screen and this whole blogging thing has really allowed me to question so many things. Like where my priorities are... What really matters...

Originally I was going to do a 365 day post, but I realized that isn't me I'm not much of a writer to begin with, but if I believe in something I'll take the time to write it. Reading this really helped me understand that so much more. Please if you ever need someone to talk to for any reason what so ever I would hope you would be willing to reach out. Just like you were there for me so many times, I'd like to also be able to offer you that support system when you need it most.

!PIZZA

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Thank you so much bro for all your uplifting words and for consistently showing up. It really means a lot to me.

I totally agree with what you said wherein we should remember the happy times that we shared with our loved ones. I'm also grateful to meet you! Usually, I use this platform to express myself and share some of my experiences.

That's really true about gamers, I'm glad that you are able to take time to reflect after reading some blogs.

To be honest, you are a great writer basing it on all of your comments. Don't worry you don't have to post every day, just do it when you feel like it.

Thank you so much for telling me that bro and for all our offers! If you also need someone to talk to I'm just one DM away.

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