My Brother And My Uncle Making Fence, Argue With My Neighbor, & More!

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My brother and my uncle puts up the wooden fence in front of our house already, and then they started to puts up the wooden posts fence next to our neighbor's land.

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We put up a fence 3 meters away, according to the police chief a few months ago. But while we were building the fence, a soldier came and told us to build the fence farther. I asked him how many meters away he pointed and replied that there. I see it is about nearly 10 meters from the road. I also told him that the police chief told me to do 3 meters from the road and I did as the police chief told me there was nothing wrong.

He added that it was too close to the road and could endanger passengers. I replied, "What about my neighbor's house? Is the house guarded up close to the road without endangering the passengers?" And you look at the fence I made, I went inside my neighbor's house, and I made a fence out of wood and the bamboo fence, just to keep it close to our safety. When he heard this, he said, "Do it!" He said goodbye and hurried to the barracks.

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Then I tell my husband about that and he says that, I think he just wants to make a power in our house.

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You can see our fence post is half a meter away from the porch of my neighbor's house. But my fence makes the some people tell me about this and that. Just like last week when my husband was not there, people came to use the stove in our old house near the road. They take the noodles and coffee I bought for my brother to cook, eat and drink, and turn on the gas stove until the gas runs out and throw the plastic in the kitchen. Use our dishes and pots without washing and leave full and all.

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They do it at night and Srey Yu and I sleep in a stone house, we do not know what time they come to do this. After I wake up I walked to turn off the lights in there and I saw everything are very messy. At first I thought it’s a dog do it but I saw a put in the stove with a big spoon and I saw many ingredients full in the kitchen. It’s made me know it’s bad person do it and I think it’s the people from far away crossing our road and stopping for eating. Then I went to turn off the lights near washing machine and I saw red flower blanket on washing machine and oil plastic from noodles. I started thinking it’s the people in my village do it with me. It’s made me angry that, I sometimes doing good with the people in here but why they do like that with me.

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Those days at night my daughter and me can’t sleep well because we think about have the person come our house but we don’t know everything. After a day in the morning and I taking that blanket to the front of our house and I waited to look at it if I see who come take that blanket, it means that he is the one who broke into my house. In my heart I secretly thought that this blanket belonged to my neighbor because I had seen they dry the blanket, but I did not accuse them because I had no evidence. Their family has a son who likes to hang out at night and the villagers know that the boy is using drugs. I wait for looking at a moment and I think if I'm here and no one comes to pick it up, then I'm going to visit my another neighbor's house, but I only go for a moment because I do not want to leave the house. When I arrive the house and that blanket is gone, it made me think in my mind that what I was doing was not wrong. But I want another clear proof for them.

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Then I ride my bicycle and crossing their house for find that blanket and I saw it at their house. I stopped my bicycle and asked a man standing in front of their house, “hello uncle, who took that blanket from my house?” This man I never knew before and I just see him living there for a few days before that day, I just know after he is a new boyfriend my neighbor. He replied that “this blanket is mine and I lost it last night, I just saw it in front of your and think have a dog pulled it to over there “. I said, no it’s not a dog and it’s the person took this blanket to my house and forgot it in my house and I tell them the above story.

I tell a man during my neighbor stay with him too “please you ask your family who have comes to my house last or not and do that thing in my house and forget this blanket”.
My female neighbor yelled at me that I came to find out about them, her family had no one to do this, the wind blew the blanket there. That answered it make me a little bit to laugh. I replied her, “the real the wind blew from my house to your house but your blanket blew from your house to my house? Hehe, and the wind can blow through the walls of the house and leave the blanket on my washing machine. Then she makes a man return that blanket to my house.

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I said, “I don’t want this blanket I just want to ask for find someone to that in my house, it’s wrong and I can call police but I don’t want to do that but don’t do that again. After I said that her make me to call police and she shout at me a lot to made me shout at her too. They were arguing with me alone, and a villager came to watch and shoot the video. We argued for about 15 minutes, I thought I could not win them because they did not talk with season, I went home with angry. In my mind, before going to ask him, I just want him to educate his son not to do this again. But they did not ask their children whether this was done or not, but they quarreled with me.

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This happened I do not tell my husband until he came home because I don’t want to make him worry about me and Sreyyuu. I think if I have the fence and that happens is not have.

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I remember once when me and my nieghbor was having an argument regarding with the fence we put. I honestly turn myself into mad that time but I keep myself calm and it was settled.

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I just have only one bad neighbor but I have so many good neighbors and the good people love me. Thank you for your feedback.

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Yes, in ourlives, there is also critic people around us and most of it are our neighbors. 😂

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Wow! There seem to be many people around there who have no manners and don't know how to treat other people and their places with respect. The behavior of the parents shows where the behavior of the children comes from.

At least you told them the truth, very brave of you.
It's now up to them to learn from it and to stop make the same mistakes.

I really hope that fence is gonna help you and your family out. You deserve better.

Big, big hug.

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Yes, some people do not respect each other because in this village I do not understand why. Sometimes I wonder why there are people like that and they can do something we can never imagine. Thank you my friend.

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I have also worked as a handyman several times and it is a very tiring job and also drains my energy.

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Yes, it’s very hard work! I also used do this work, so I understand that.

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hopefully the fence will be ready soon. that's what life is, sometimes it's hard for people to see us happy and happy to see us hard. your story is very pleasant to read. I hope you are always patient with this incident

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Yes, the some people are like that! Thank you my friend. Have a great day.

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It's a right choice to do fencing around your house to avoid having problem with your neighbor like you mentioned in your post. Hopefully you and your children able to have a nice rest after the fences was completed setting up.

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I hope so! Thank you for your kind words. Have a wonderful time.

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Gosh, how very rude for someone to come into your house and eat your food and leave such a mess. Having your fence finished will be a very good thing. I'm just gobsmacked that your neighbours argued back at you when it was obvious they were in the wrong.

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It's really this family doing it, but they do not want to take responsibility. This is the character of irresponsible people. Thank you 😊. Have a nice day.

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