PAINED FOR MY FRIEND WHOSE WEDDING IS TOMORROW || THIS IS WHY!!!
My friend is getting married tomorrow, and he's planned everything with Dami, another of our pals. Dami, one of his groomsmen, was supposed to bring a car for the wedding as well as be a member of the band that is preparing a special performance for the bride. Today was supposed to be the final rehearsal before the wedding tomorrow because we have been practicing for this for the previous few weeks.
The groom had been trying to call Dami at the location of today's rehearsals for more than five hours, but he didn't pick up the phone. He picked up the call when I made the decision to call him on my phone. In the course of the conversation, Dami revealed that he would not only not be attending the wedding but also would not be supplying the car he had promised to use to transport the bride.
Dami's absence from the wedding has derailed a lot of plans. It ruined the rehearsals we had planned, and now the groom is concerned about where he can hire a car for this wedding at 6:30 p.m. the day before.
The same dami had a suit custom-made for him, but he neglected to pay for it, forcing my friend to foot the bill for a suit he didn't need.
I find his failure to answer his calls to inform us of his intentions sooner to be the most annoying aspect of what he did. He might have simply informed the groom that he would not be accessible, allowing him to rent a car early rather than just a few hours before the wedding.
This sort of behavior is offensive and inexcusable. I'm wondering how Dami will react to the groom in the future after he botched the entire arrangement. Did he even consider how this would impact him later? I doubt that my friend, the groom, would be able to recommend him in the future for anything.
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Humans will mess you up one way or another
exactly!...
As in ehn, them nor go even look back 😢.
This is so selfish of Dami. Whatever his reasons may be, he should have communicated the groom.
He planned to ruin tomorrow for the groom but I bet you, the wedding will hold and it will become the talk of the town.
You still have a role to play. Speak to the groom, loom for a way forward. Get another car for the bride and let Dami's action be in the past now.
Conjugal bliss for the about to wed bride and groom.
Definitely, everything would go blissful.
Funny thing is, I didn't say the whole story. The guy did something bad some days before the wedding but the groom didn't take it as anything.
I didn't know how to explain that story while explaining this one that just happened.
He just showed his real self. He has been a wolf in sheep skin all the while.
Exactly, he nor try at all.
Normally without you saying, I already knew that he must have done something else, na small small something dey start.
Thank God say you nor fit add am oo, maybe Dami for get bad dream, I for nor take I'm easy with am 😂😂.
Yes, I'm very positive it will go smoothly and it will be so memorable.
Like seriously, Dami messed up. That's betrayal beyond bounds.
He messed up big time, ah!! No.
I'm sure he will be very pissed if he was the one someone treated like this.
Should've describe the situation to groom.
That's why its always necessary to do all Arrangements before the time not hours before the event.
Well, i wish they live happy life together and Congrats to both!
They have planned it together oh. Dami and the groom are close friends, even more like family to the groom.
This was least expected from him. He disappointed everybody.
Yeah, I wish the couple happy life together!
No naw, why will you do that to someone you call your friend? It is not just right, exactly there's no excuse for what he did, the only excuse will be that he had an accident that he was not able to say or do anything.
No wonder the Bible says that the heart of man is deceit above all things and desperately wicked, who can know it? No one 😏.
Has your friend been able to get a car now? 😢.
I never get update from my friend. He said I should go home and he with his other guys were going to find a way out.
He would probably use his dad's car for replacement.
Oh, I hope his dad understands.
This is really bad of him and I think he may have done it intentionally. Even if something came up, courtesy demands that he put a call across to his friend immediately to inform him of the change of plan and apologise for the inconveniences. But not picking his calls and his entire attitude is a clear indication that he just intentionally want to mess up the wedding
Exactly! You get the point. This is what I have been saying since. Dami has no excuse to give and must have done it intentionally. Why pick call when it was another line that called him?
The funny thing is when we asked why he wasn't picking up the call, he said he was charging his phone. Charging phone since morning oh.
Ah charging his phone? Something is fishy, hope he does not have crush on our bride oo? 🙄 Or I'm I the only one thinking in that direction? 😪.
He is just giving lame excuses. If he knew that new number was calling from the wedding arrangement, I know he wouldn't have picked the call sef.
I thought to that direction self, why won't he just place a call through or even send a message across.
Exactly. That would have been far better off.
Yes naw.
Did Dami at least explain why he won’t be coming? I think that’s the least he can do. He owes the groom at least this much. You can’t just fuck up plans like this and not give an explanation.
The guy said he was going out with his family. That's all he said.
I was dumbfounded after hearing this. Something they have planned together months ago.
Ah, something is wrong, you guys need to sit him down after the wedding.
Abi oo, he should be questioned very well for what he did.
He shouldn’t have even waited to be questioned to give them an explanation. A wedding is no joke and if you’re bailing last minute, the least you can do is tell people why. That was a cold move.
Yes that's right, he should have done that but that is were humans differ 😏.
Wow! I'm out of words. He definitely tested the patience of the groom (and bride) and possibly might ruin the friendship there. If only he made a prior arrangement to accommodate his absence, or if he just informed the groom beforehand, things would have been better.
What a way to ruin a friendship. I feel sad for the groom. It must have been so stressful!
Lol 😅. It's not might anything. The friendship has been ruined totally.
Exactly the point. If only he made prior arrangements for his absence, or called earlier things would have not been worst as it is now!
I would be going to the wedding tomorrow. I would take pictures and write about how the day went.
Hahaha, that's harsh, you want to pay him back, no naw. In fact treat him better than before self so he can truly regret his actions. You guys should ask him why he did what he did self, not one answer oo, he should explain.
It will be nice to see how everything will go, but I'm positive it will go well.
It's really somehow sha, I can't imagine this happening to me oo, it will be really so heartbreaking 😢.
Humans will never cease to amaze me though. How can some species of people be so cruel and heartless, where did they hang their conscience
I feel so sorry for your friend. I hope he was able to place another order or book for a car, how sad! I pray this doesn't get to him and ruin his mood for the wedding today.
You guys should enjoy the wedding today and keep the fried rice and chicken for us here o😂
My friend is someone with a free spirit. He would look it away and enjoy the day. But if it was me, hopefully it would not, I may probably be pissed for a whole day.
Right now, I feel like giving Dami a punch to the face if I see him. How would he behave like this 😪
Fine boy be calming down you might ruin your makeup🤣🤣😂
Just kidding though but chill and enjoy today, forget Dami. He has done what he had done already.
Abi oo, i thought the same way too.
There's a reason why all this is happening so let's just trust God to do his will, so @starstrings01 try and breathe when you see him 😂.
😅🤣🤣
Ohkay na.. I am not angry again.
Yes, please don't be. I can't imagine you being moody, it won't fit that your cute face, lol.
Hehehe, calm down oo, don't go and stain your suit if he attends the wedding oo, lol.
I once knew a friend called Oluwadamilare and this your friend's name is just reminding me of him. He also disappointed me once, I just hope that's not how people they call Dami behaves oo 😏.
Lol... Please don't create a stereotype with that name oh 😅
No oo, I know everybody are not the same and I will meet that one soon, I love that name so it will be very hard for me to create a stereotype for it.
It's really a despicable thing to do to a friend on one of his best days if not the best.
Exactly!
Not coo, what happened.
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how can he do that gosh that's so irresponsible and stay clear away from him! I wouldn't trust that guy anymore
Definitely! I won’t do so either. Just a clear way of showing that he cannot be trusted ever again.
Ahn ahn... why would Dami have acted this way, planning to ruin someone’s Big day or what? To not have picked the groom’s called sef made it look like a deliberate action. How can you even treat your friend like that sef.
May God save us from frenemy o😂 I hope the groom will be able to get another car for his beautiful bride🥰
@starstrings01 and the other friends should try and calm him down o so the wedding can be eventful and won’t have a frowning face in his wedding pictures🤣
That’s so bad of Dami anyway☹️
I doubt you self will be able to recommend him for anything.
I can imagine how troubled you guys must have been trying to look for a swift solution.
Well I'm sure that must have served as a lesson to you guys to have a plan b always.
I just hope the wedding party went well?
Na you we dey wait for like this make you marry.
Lol. Na sign from God I dey wait for like this! I no move anything if I no see any sign
That's so thoughtful.
I kuku know you are financially capable!
Forget it, I am not financially capable of anything yet.
Okay, I believe you!