10 SILENT RULES FOR PARENTS AND THEIR KIDS

Let love and discipline be shared similarly between Father and Mother, else kids grow up with the impression that mummy actually cared, whilst daddy became mean and wicked.

Let your youngsters grasp their unique origins, way of life and language, it will store them on specials days and will not permit them be less guided as some would be.

As your children grow, allow them to know that you aren't gods, parents have fears and insecurities, struggles and vulnerabilities. Let them realize that as you conquer yours, they can also overcome theirs, if demanding situations display up.

Our dad and mom taught us to stay away from rich kids, that they are spoilt. We ended up with poor folks and poverty mentality. Till today, a number of us cannot enjoy a buffet in a first rate restaurant without feeling robbed. Poverty is very bad.

Let them learn, please. Give younger kids a chance to find their personal solutions. When you lovingly well known a child's minor frustrations without without delay dashing in to save her, you train her self-reliance and resilience.

You have only a few years to pray with, enjoy and mould your kids, as soon as they are off to boarding school, your impact is limited, only God’s mercy will rescue them from peer tendencies.

Too many teenagers head to secondary school dormitories with no clue how to clean their clothes. Don't let your child become one of them. You can begin laundry lessons when kids are around 6 years.

Teach your kids that regardless of their great efforts they could still fail, but they mustn’t give up, they must keep pushing until they win.

Don’t scold your kids to timidity, let them learn to respectfully speak their mind, recognize others, express feelings and be grateful.

Having unrealistic expectancies of your children also can cause kids to feel shame if they are not able to live up to those expectations. They also may develop negative beliefs about themselves as not being “excellent enough.” It can even lead them to develop tension and low esteem.

Allow children to be children, don’t make them up, don’t fix her a Brazilian hair for her 12th birthday. They may have enough time in future to use these things.