Broken, Distorted, Twisted
(It's really just me rambling, because it's fun.)
I suppose I did say that I don't write these on a regular basis and here I am plotting another.
Well I'm here to put thoughts down on "paper" so to speak.
This week, well this week has been a very shitty week, it started so and it will probably finish so with a lot of unneeded events that take place during the cycle of the week. Not actual events, just ordinary stuff that happen on a daily basis that I feel irritates me to death!
I know why though.
But are we so easily manipulated by our deep inner emotions, why do we let those emotions control all of the other emotions that we can experience? If you are upset, you're upset there's no changing that, well at least not soon after a crappy situation happened, (does this make sense??)
Sometimes I think that my weak spot is seeing the good when I'm covered with the bad. And who can blame me? There are so many of us, no wonder that's how we all act, like the most negative beings around. I mean we rarely think about the genuinely amazing things that has happened in our lives, instead we look upon and remember the negativity in life so much faster.
Now maybe, maybe that's just life's way of reminding you how bad things can get while trying to push you to do better and to go further. But somehow we managed to perceive that in a totally different manner and instead act irrational, almost like a creature in fear.
I have to admit I was one of those creatures, probably more than once this weak, I feel broken, distorted and twisted. Not in a sense of being depressed or sorry for myself in anyway. In-fact I despise that a lot more, if you feel like you are a depressed wreck well you better get up and start fixing yourself. I don't mean to come off a total douche bag, clinical depression is a real thing a very real thing. However it all comes down to you and only you at the end of the day!
So make things happen, not for anyone else but yourself!
I'm a drifter I swear, I mean why it's so fun to put down the thoughts as they flow through your mind.
And that's what we should do as we live, I mean we are programmed to live, why worry about what happens tomorrow, to be fair it hasn't happened until it happens. Or why even worry over something that has already happened? The events have past and they lead to some more events and so it goes on, have you ever thought about the worst thing that could have ever happened to you? (Of course you have, we are wired that way.) well have you ever thought how it might not be so impactful on your life to this day still? Yes it might have changed or altered the course of the path you would have taken in life, it will forever have an impact but it doesn't really linger with you forever, unless you choose to carry it along with you.
Get rid of your baggage, you can always get some more along the way, the road ain't done yet.
It's never too late, well that might not be so true.
Okay, yeah some will criticize me here, but there's a line where trying new things in life might be a little too late.
Unless it's knowledge gained.
Let's say you got that perfect job opportunity, and you missed it because someone talked you out of it or anything of the sorts. You gotta shoot your shot the way you were meant to, just do the things. If you have an idea that is genuinely purpose full GO for it NOW because in five or ten or twenty years you might not have that opportunity ever presenting itself again!
We can embed that into our everyday lifestyle, thinking about starting to read, pick up a book and read, got to do the chores? Get your ass up and go do them! Need to call your sister? Do it now because what you miss out on today you don't make up for on the morrow!
Stop gobbling up what they feed you on a daily basis and change the things in your life.
You are the string puller of your life, don't live by someone else's accord!
Unless it's your parents, obey your parents. Period.
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Great thoughts to ponder. Indeed time passed will never be taken back.
Never ever! That's why we need to make the most of the hours filling our day!!
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Obey your parents... That's important yes 😂. The rest of it, go do life! I think something we will carry with us for the rest of our lives, and that's okey. But it's in the way you carry it that matters and we need to learn how to carry it without it destroying our wonderful future. Being broken and having broken pieces are different. You can still go on with your broken pieces (trust me 😅 I'm saying that from experience), you just need to make a conscious choice to put yourself back together! Life has so much to offer
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That's the hard part ey, learning to love with what happened without it dragging us down. But putting ourselves together might differ from one person to the next, it might be easier for us than it is for the person next to us.
Life is an adventure, you have your sad moments, your happy moments, the adrenaline pumped days and the anger fueled by fire days... But it's not suppose to define who we are🤔
Die beste ding van alles wat kon kom was ons🤗🥰 to the ends of the earth with you 🌎
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I have dealt with a lot of hard blows in my life (I'm a great grandmother now). What you're learning is what I have learned and applied.
I apply my faith to my down days because even though it looks like things are going poorly, God promised me he would take things and turn them around for my benefit.
Nothing gets accomplished by sitting around and feeling sorry for ourselves. For those of us who seek to escape our problems,we all find that they come back to haunt us again.
The best advice I can give to anybody who is struggling it's too spend some time reflecting on your choices and determine what you might be able to do to change your current situation.
You think you have a good head on your shoulders. Keep writing it out because that seems to help me, too.
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A great grandmother😃 sheeeshhh now that is fantastic! Not something very many can say!
Unconditional faith is also something that most people lack! I am happy that you have it and treasure it! I'm sure that's why you got so far in life! And have the privilege of being a great grandmother!
The writing helps alot, especially for someone who struggles to openly speak about the problems face to face😅 it does help alot!!
I'll leave topic open for writer inspiration and I, too, have a lifelong struggle with sharing feelings one on one. Writing has been cathartic and I believe I'd burst if I didn't write. :)
If you want a topic to ponder how about-
I changed the way I thought about ____________ after I experienced this incident.
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Heh heh, when I was a boy I think I never obeyed my parents...
Joking aside, I agree that action must be taken and done now; build your own future according to our dreams and expectations.
I like your reflection, beautiful and arouses many thoughts in me, thank you!
Laughs, so you were a naughty little bugger 🤣 fear not I think most of us were!
You are right! I mean you want to build things the way you want them to be shaped, not according to someone else's hopes and dreams
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