Hive learners contest: w16e2 Impact of social media in relationship

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Hello Hivers and learners

Thank you @deimage for inviting me to participate this wonderful contest.Actually Hive is a huge familly. So many communities performing so many activities.Attending all of them at the same time is not an easy task to do after day's work. I am new to Hive and it's discord community.Though I joined the discord a month ago or so but now I have joined hive learners.Sorry for coming late.This is going to be my first participation in this community-contest and I will love to do it.

Let me head towards the Context & Contest:

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Social media is now a great platform to communicate with the world. Ten years back it wasn't that much volume but today it has become mainstream media. I don't want to remark about it as good or bad. Let me introspect a little bit I will talk about it after that.

I can remind year 2006, if you got a mobile phone in your hand it would be prestigious, people would think you are from upper class society though people then only processed botton cell phone not the virtual keypad which we have now.We had friends only from our own village or from nearby ones.Life was like a frog in the lake.From then I don't know how it kept changing including my growing up with time.I am really surprised where we were and where are now.This revolution of social media has been possible only because of advancement of technologies specially in mobile sector and ofcourse internet is the bone marrow.

Now-a-days from a kid to elderly people also use social media.It is amazing to think once I lived in a little village and hardly new a hundred of people but now I have millions of friends only because of social media and This Mr.hive is taking it to another level of it. I am very gald for that.

Advantages of social media Over relationship in material world:

  1. It helps us not being an introvert.If you don't share our though, emotions we call you introvert. Think if you had none to share those things to whom would you share?Now you got social media for not getting called an introvert if you lack real world friend.I know a lot of people to do so may be they enjoy relation social relation.
  2. Brought the entire world into your drawing room.You can now know what happens in any part of the world sitting in your drawing room though it is possible because of internet but the medium is social media.
  3. You got chance to show your talent, you need not to be in TV.I can remind in my childhood I used to walk long distance to watch a TV show in people's home afford it but now I hardly watch TV.
  4. knowledge is power and social media share you the knowledge what you need to grow yourself fit for the new order of the world.
  5. What we have learnt in our life is just a copy from others.Think now you have many friends and foe to copy them which was far away from you in back days.
  6. You can prevent living monotonus material life.Think you do same work and see same people everyday which can make life monotonous for anyone but exploring social media can give you relief from it if you know how to use them.

The advantages are numerous and you can't demoralise social media if you see it from boarder angle.Some people do not like it because they are not used to it.They may down vote social media but they have reasons to say that as follows:

Disadvantaged of social media when comes with material relationship

  1. Many times we have seen people are avoiding their dear ones , their family and the friends in real world.It is not good to search for new people in social media to forget your present ones.
  2. We are not a robot or a machine, We live in the material world comprises of love, emotion satisfaction, happiness with friends and family and so the virtual life can't be everything to us.
    If it happens, we would become a machine.
  3. The worst is message or work, bad or good can be spead out in the entire world in a quick span of time which can be dangerous for the world as we know bad things spead faster than a good one. In India we have faced it a lot of time.

See how can I take myself away from this devine face?
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Source: Screen shot of my cell phone.

The conclusion:

Relationship is important because we are social animal and can not live alone. Relations make us alive and our need of it is must. Some people like to go virtual and some find it amusing in material.😀

Every action we do has both the pros and the cons.So the topic today is not out of it.When changes happen, we can't take it easily or can't fit to it comfortably. To get use to present trend we need time.Soon,We must learn how to use the social media for our own good but not for doing dirty activities, not for gaining vested interest or not to deceive people we know.

Thank you for stoping by.

I hope you like my post.

Have a nice day.



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My friend @th4488 . I thought your post was great, your perspective of what you think of this whole world of social networks and the impact on the human being, I loved how you approached it. Congratulations and many successes...

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Thank you for your kind words.
Have a nice day friend.

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Wow, good write mate.
You write it very good...👍

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Thank you for inviting and replying bro

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Social Media has helped a lot people. We can communicate with our friends and family from the comfort of our homes. If social is used sparingly, it'll surely have a positive effect.

Thanks for sharing.

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Thank you for commenting and sharing your thought.
Have a nice day friend.

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🌺Thoughtful post TH
Tbh in real life relationships is very important to me, and that's what I try to work on that daily. Online relationships is like the waves in the sea, blows here and there. Most see it as Friends with benefits which is something I have always detested. I like 'genuinty', not hanging on back & forth favours. I pullaway when I notice something isn't right. Although some have used it well to their advantage & made 'lasting friendships' I think.
We Learn Everyday, it's complex but once you understand it, it's all joy I think.

Is the lil girl in phonescreen your daughter? She's so cute❤️

Nice one Bhai, cheers🥂

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Yeah you are right.
Distance relationship is just a formal one.
People may be get detested for now but the change is awaiting our next generation.

No I am single and she is my niece.She is very cute.

Thank your for commenting.
!LUV

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Yes True💯

Ah alright. We do have alot of single parents.
She's adorable, may Favour always be her portion❤️.

Cheers Bhai🥂

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Social media indeed have both the good and the bad sides. We mustn't allow what we see on social media times to cloud our minds because most of them are false. Pick the good ones that will add value to our lives.

Thanks for sharing your view 👍

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Yeah for sure I agree with you.
Thank you for making a comment.

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I too had an emergency last night and when we got back by 1am I couldn't sleep, I took my phone and made a quick post to hive just as I was about to sleep the babies again it's not easy but blogging is interesting 😊
You are very funny when you called us a social animal😆😆😆😆😆 nice write my fellow social animal🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 😻 and may we learn the best ways to use social media.

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Hehe thank you for replying
I am glad that you liked it.
Have a nice day friend.

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yeah, Social media has helped us in alot of ways... It has also helped some to find their love. But I would just say ome has to be extra careful with the kind of relationship to make on social media.

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Yeah should approach it carefully.
Thank you for sharing your thought
Have a nice day friend.

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The world has gone from the analogy to the digital. The world being in our hand we can decide what we want at a greater extent. As you said it is both advantageous and disadvantageous just tonwrk out the good aspects and amend what we can with time.

Thanks for sharing

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It's amazing how social media is now woven into the fabric of our everyday lives in the space of just a decade or so. 😱

!PIZZA

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