The dating chronicles - my dating life experience

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It is true with the words they say that he will find love finds the right thing. But the reverse is the case when someone does not get the right person to love one might end up having regrets about why he or she has dated such person. Today's posts in centred on the context of the comedy open mic which is titled the dating chronicles. This post is a submission to the Paritae blogging competition Dating chronicles


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Now let's get down to business. I will be sharing this post based on my own personal experience in dating. Actually I haven't dated much but out of the few dating experiences I have had, I will share one.

Dating a lady, is something I find so though for me, but this is due to some reasons which is sometimes you find it hard to know about someone you are dating because you can't get to know them all in his little time. But this I tried give me some happy moments and some sad moments but today, I will be seeing more of the happy moment.

I remembered going out with this very lady on a date which happens to be the second date which I will be having and what happened this very day? We were set to go see a movie, we wore good looking dress and we were so happy that we are going to see a movie and the reason is, that is a very fast and we were going that's together so I believe the togetherness brought the joy in us.


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On our way to cinema, I noticed the weather was changing. Immediately, I had a change of plan and I told her not to worry about we going to see the movie anymore but he insisted. Well within my mind, I said I was a guy and I was never bothered if I get soaked by the rain. Then this heavy rain started. immediately, I started laughing because I told the bike man carrying us not to stop until we get to our final destination. She was surprised I wasn't complaining and said aren't we suppose to stop but I insisted and told her to enjoy the ride..

That sound strange right? Sometime we need to do some crazy things as lover which makes us bond together. After some minutes, we got to the cinema but I already made provision for another pair of cloth which I told a friend and I didn't let her know. We went to the convince and changed to another cloth and she was very surprised how I was able to make that possible..


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Initially, my plan was to make the both of us cold and then we could cuddle each other while watching the movie and my plan worked out isn't it? We ordered cold stone and pop corn to make us relax while watching. The movie we wat h was an horror movie which I believe most ladies don't like and they find it interesting only if they have their loved ones around them and they can hold whenever the horrific scene happens.

It was all like a planed day for me and I really had lots of fun going out that day. After the movie, we went around to see some amazing places. Amongst which was the zoo, the lagoon, library and many other which made our day a great one..

Dating has its ups and downs but I will share a little bit of the downs which made us get to know one another more. I remembered the day we both had an argument which led to misunderstanding between us. This day, I was scared of loosing her but on the other side, I need to be a man and not let her know this because she might see it as a weakness.

She went out to have fun with her friends leaving me at home and she promised to come around to my place so we could have lone time together but I eventually didn't see her till after when it was late in the evening. I was annoyed and called her not to come to my place again but within myself, I wanted her to still come but I just had to act that way.

Immediately I called her, she was restless and she took bike to my place immediately. But before she came, I was happy I was able to scold her but not the harsh way tho. She eventually came down to my place and was feeling sober and started begging. I was suppose to accept her immediately but I figure if I should do that so fast, she might do something worse again then I pretended I won't listen to her and make her beg a little more . But while she was begging, I told her my mind and eventually accepted her apologies so peace can rain..

Here is a little bit of my dating experience I hope I was able to put some smile on you beautiful faces and I look forward to reading more experience which I believe I could learn from.. Thanks for reading and have a lovely day ahead..



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🤣 Make her wait outside? how cruel of you ha,ha,ha,ha.... But it's a good thing the girl insisted, now you're together? Good question heh heh heh heh.

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Lol but it wasn't a cruel act, we just need to act silly sometimes to generate fun.. well we are not together anymore but we created some good memories

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Relationship actually has it ups and downs, the good and bad times and one of these good times was when you went to the movie cinema and had some coldstone .

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You guys were cold yet went ahead to order coldstone. Omo!

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Yes ooo, that's how stars do😃😃

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Cold stars... Maximum respect 😂

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Lol, thanks my brother, that's how stars do😃😃

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Hey, @the-lead. The point of adding the text is to include the links within it. The sentence itself doesn't really do much. Also check our second pinned post and edit the post accordingly.

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I have actually done that, please could you help me confirm if I have done it right?

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You haven't done it.

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Please could you please make me understand well because it a bit confusing to me please!

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It needs to be written like this

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I have made the amendment.. hope I have done the right thing as you wanted?

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Wow!
This is very interesting.

My little advice is that, ladies like to be treated softly. In as much as we try to be hard, let’s swallow our “pride” sometimes and allow our feelings out.

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Awwn! This is so sweet, I will surely take your advice into consideration thanks so much

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What a good day for both of you because your plan worked well. I hope you enjoyed her company that very day.

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Yeah, sure I really do, to the fullest 😅

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Mhen it seems the community has practically gone crazy. I thought we all agreed to be forever single, what's all this lovey dovey, teary eyed stories I've been reading.

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😃😃😂😂😂 sure we do but now I'm am back to the singles association 😃😃 so we are together now don't worry. So no one will oppress you with lovey story anymore😃

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I think dating someone has it’s perks ...ups , downs, lefts, and rights...the first date was romantic one...thanks for sharing

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So as both of you were feeling cold and you went ahead to order for coldstone, hope you guys didn't got lost somewhere? Hmmm

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😆😆😆 we didn't get lost but instead we found ourselves in the midst of the deep blue see of fun 😊

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Blue sea? Hia, how did you guys manage to come out? Hope none of you drown

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😃😃😃😂no we didn't oooo we came out safe and sound because we were strong enough 😃

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Mr strong!!. But you allowed the sea of love too carry you away. Be careful.

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Lol, I can never allow that to happen again, not after learning my lessons the hard way..😃

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Getting cold and taking cold stone

I can truly say the intentions behind this notice needs to be critically studied to know

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Lol, I don't think you need to study about that because you might not have much time to do that😃

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