MY FIRST DATING EXPERIENCE.

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I was a black short boy with a sprinkle of shyness. Never have I thought I could have my heart beat faster than the normal.

I was 15,to my parents I was too young for things like this. My watchword was to go to school, get good grades, do the home chores, go to church and play with other friends.

Back then it was a crime to think of a lady . My mum every single day will flip the Bible to different places that kicks against fornication.

I wasn't fornicating you know? I was just a young guy interested in a lady.

It was the first term of the session. A Monday morning after the assembly meeting. I was sitting at the back of the class. I hardly see the board but I prefer not to be seen. It felt therapeutic then.

While the class was silently waiting for the first teacher to set in, a lady walked in. She was a new student transferred to our school.

She was some inchs taller than me, she had a nice hair and a pretty face, a perfect body with a sparkling smile. Her smile was seducing and very much captivating.

She was like a goddess. She walked in and took the attention of everyone in the class.

I stared at her for long that my eyes were bleeding tears unconsciously.

I was lost in my fantasy. The very first time I was thrown off balance for a very long time, my heart beat faster than normal.

I didn't know what was wrong with me, I was just so confused that I tried to move closer to her anytime I get the chance.

This mystery called a girl found a sit which was closer to where I was sitting.

I wasn't just short as a person, I was short in confidence too. Many guys from the class introduced themselves to her but I didn't move from where I was sitting.

I wasn't playing hard guy, I was just another guy who chooses to let nature bring things to us if truly they are ours to own.

Don't you find that stupid?

In a week she was the talk of the school, she was this beautiful.

One afternoon after the closing bell, I had packed my books and was heading home. I got to the junction where I intend to get a cab that will take me back home. I realized she was also going the same route with me.

She approached me asking me where I stay, I was happy , I was waiting for her to get me to talk and it did happen. We took the same vehicle and we had a long chat.

The second day in the school we sat together gisting and telling ourselves stories.

I develop a deep feeling for school because there was this girl who I really want to see.

This was how I felt then, it was a crazy experience that overwhelmed me.

A few more weeks later I found out that she was to go back to her previous school. What? I was unstable when she told me. I wanted to ask her out, I wanted to tell her how I felt for her but it seems my chances are caught short.

We had just 1 week to be together. I made it memorable, we talked, laughed and spent more time together.

I summoned courage and told her how I felt, she also felt the same way. It was a blessing for 3days because after she left we lost contact.

My first dating experience only lasted 3days. I wanted more but life circumstances didn't make it work.

I could remember her last test to me, she said "If we are meant to be, nature will bring us back together"

I really wished nature could do me just one more favour but nature refused. I'm 21 now I hope nature will do the things i want.

I really don't know if this is love but how do I define my first experience?

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This is a beautiful, heartfelt story. I enjoyed it very much and wish you the love you seek. Thank you for sharing. Keep writing. God Bless

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Hi, thank you for the nice words.when I found love I will share with you my experience 🥰🥰🥰

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