I THINK ABOUT THE KIDS AND MY GRAY HAIR||LOH 118

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Hi, ladies on hive?

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I hope everyone here is happy and have a great day.

It's been a long time since I wrote here. This is my first post here in 2023. This week's theme really makes me immediately imagine and remember about my dream life in the next five years.

Where would you like to be in five years? Where do you see yourself?

If still alive, in five years I want to live in Yogyakarta and in my own house which I share with my husband. A minimalist three bedroom house, but I really wish I had a garage and a backyard. You know what I imagined the backyard would be? I want to build a small gazebo to sit around when guests come, or just relax in the free air.

Besides my dream little gazebo, this back garden will also function as a hydroponic vegetable garden. Yes, I have always wanted to have a hydroponic vegetable garden in my house.

In the past, when my father still had my father's hobby, which was to grow all kinds of vegetables, I asked my father to start practicing hydroponics, but that didn't work out, he died in 2008.

Then how will I be in five years?

I'm not married right now, but in five years, I hope I have someone I call a husband. I dream of having a child before 30. However, I'm starting to reconsider my decision to get married before 30, I want to get married after 30, and have a child before 35. This is my wish.

I will be a mother who takes care of children with my husband and focus on writing like now. My husband may do business or work elsewhere, but, at night, when there is time other than rest and family time, we will each do our own thing. Me with my writing and him with his computer. Maybe he's a computer geek or something.

Two desks, two computers in one room. we are together, we are empowered together, and we share our love there.

Five more years means I'm 37 years old. You know what I've been thinking about lately?

I imagined being a mother and already had gray hair showing everywhere. I will look in the mirror and shake my gray hair. Hahaha I'm glad to imagine it happened. I feel beautiful for a while.

Just imagining pleasant things can make me feel very beautiful. I do this praise for myself, to accept myself. I in the next five years will be happy with all my dreams.

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Thank you so much. Iam very happy for this love!🎉

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Ohh hey this are definitely great plans.. your going to definitely make a sweet mum🤗I wish you well.

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Thank you so much for stopping by. Yeahh I always looking forward about it.🥰

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Hello again, @titisnariyah .
Yes, no matter what, we shall be happy!
!LADY 😍🌺🤙

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How nice how would you like to see you in five years, I can tell you are a very family oriented girl I am sure you will be a great wife and mother. Greetings 💖

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Thank you for you support. I hope so. Again thanks for dropping by. Have a a nice day🥰

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That is some really great ideas, and my favorite is how you say you Will praise yourself to accept yourself.
That is so IMPORTANT but many of us have hard to do it ❤️ love that.
And I bet you Will look amazing in grey hair.
I hope you get your wish for a husband and kids to 😉 alot can happen in 5 years.

Thank you for sharing and have a wonderful week. Cheers 🌸

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Hi, @saffisara I thank you for your questions this week. this made me realize and look again at myself for what i want. I'm also doing my best to be more flexible in 2023 and beyond, so I can also accept myself and share more love with others . Thank you also for stopping by and giving me support. Have a nice day!🎉

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I love your dream of a minimalist 3 bedroom apartment and how you want your surroundings to look like.

I also love the fact that you dream of appreciating yourself and your future husband and children. I wish you good luck with your dreams

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Thank you for the support and love! I hope u always healthy and happy everywhere, mya dear @mojtee07😊

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Thanks for the wish dear, I do appreciate

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