CAN LOVE BE BOUGHT?

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Can you buy love?

The answer is a big NO, many have lost it one way or the other, finding love can be easy for others and so difficult to some other, but can one buy love? I have seen many people who stay in bad relationships just because of what they are getting from it. Many say they can't leave their relationships because they don't know where to start from financially, does that mean that you are in your relationship because of the money, or material things you get from it?

Let me give this instance:

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My friend's friend was in a toxic relationship for year's till they got married she never confided in anybody about what was going on in her marriage, yes the guy was extremely rich, that even other of her friends were envious of her, when ever she went shopping, she would post it on her WhatsApp status, even people seeing her in her car and all would say she married well, buy she has been enduring the marriage, a loveless marriage, but because of the material things she was getting from him, she stayed to endure the abuse, physically and mentally, well don't be surprise that I tell you today that she is now crippled, she's in a wheel chair thanks to a heavy beating with a curtain rod she got from the so called loved Husband.

You know when one genuinely love someone, you wouldn't want to hurt the person in anyway, so I sometimes doubt people I see that say they are in love with each other, but can't tolerate each other's mistakes or shortcomings, well we know no one is perfect but one thing a relaship needs is tolerance and patience.

I conclude with this ,one can't buy love, you earn love with the proper kind of attitude and attention, love is earned by being kind, tolerable, easygoing, caring, selfless, etc. When you love someone, you don't need a person to tell you to treat your partner well.

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Imagine getting crippled because she chose to be in a relationship just for the money.

I have heard similar stories concerning those who marry because of money, at the end they will either get a divorce or bear the consequences.

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That's just being stupid on their part, not only women that faces this , men too, And the consequences are always severe

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Thanks for this enlightenment.
Love can't and never be bought but rather earned.

You really gave good instances. Well done

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Thanks for your comment, much appreciated.

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I don't really believe in the idea of buying love because love is geniune it comes naturally and one don't need to buy it before it comes

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Damn.... she's now crippled and that's really bad for her.
I really feel sorry for her.. but it was her decision anyways.

Toxic relationship is really bad but I'm not surprised when I see these young yahoo boys hitting their girlfriends and they won't even mention it to anyone because of what they are getting from the boys.

I agree with you sha that love cant be bought.
this am well drafted post... well-done

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Yeah it was her decision and she beared the cost, thanks for your comment. .and sorry for the late response, was having issues with my phone just got it fixed

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oh,, No wahala.

Its good that you had your phone fixed.

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Asin it has really been an issue gorme this past one month, I pray I get money to change the phone before the year goes out.

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Most people have the tendency to measure their wealth in the amount of money they have in the bank, the size of their house, the car they drive, the clothes they wear.
But this type of wealth is fleeting. Money comes and goes. Houses get old, as do cars and clothes.
But the relationships you build through you your life. Those grow, flourish and become better everyday. So you tell me. What is more valuable?

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Yeah, it's true relationship is more valuable than material things but most people still get it wrong

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And sorry for the late responses , I'm having issues with my phone.

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You are right, when you are truly in love you would not even dream of doing anything that will hurt your partner. But if it's motivated by money, you would not dream of doing anything that will hurt your chances of getting more money. The priorities are different.
Thank you for sharing this with us.

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Yeah , that's it, thanks for your comment

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I agree, love can not be bought. Many people sadly have such low opinion of themselves and battle these demons that they try to buy love, but it always ends in tragedy.

Thanks for sharing your thoughts on the subject @treasuree :-)

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Hmmmm, such is life.
Thanks for your comment

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Every individual has the ability to make wealth for his or herself and shouldn't let any other persons own make you stay glued to torture in the name of love. Quite an interesting and educative post, well done sis

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