Shocking Reality

It is indeed important to be always patient and grateful for small blessings and also to be very appreciative too.
Sometimes things doesnt always go the way we planned and it feels like life is stuck on repeat for most people especially when it have to do with being creative or meeting ends needs for a better life.

Situation can make people forget good deeds so soon ,despite how the other person might have made sacrifices in helping out while that particular person is in need,
It turns out that people mostly forget the good deeds of others and are very quick to get angry enough to react to any little bad thing or offence someone might have committed or done.

Why will somebody you have helped countless times decide to ignore you just because he or she feels you offended them and they take it upon them self to frustrate your little efforts.

Here was a friend who have been with a lady for 3years like they both do practically everything together,
They both attended same secondary school and university.

The guy graduated 2years ahead of her and got a job in another state while the girlfriend was still at school,
So it turns out that things got hard for her parents and he was tryin is best to assist her anyway he can.
Including payin fees for her and even rents and other school expenses,
All this happend 1year after he got the job and he was able to still try his best to meet up with her bills including his own too ..
The only good thing was that he's parents were still assisting him with some cash from their family business that was shared to all the children,

And that made him to be able to meet up with both his needs and her's especially since he was still working too..

Her only issues with him was that he wasn't giving her help ontime,like if she asks him for something, it might take him 1week for him to give her , and that was because he said he was trying to build his buisness first ,
So when she was in her final year she asked for help during her project ,and it was really urgent too ,he was able to give her half of the money and told her he couldn't afford the rest because he will be using the money for his new buiness that he was already starting up ,and so he told her to try borrow from anybody and in 2weekds he will pay back the money,
This got her angry because she needed the cash urgently and he is insisting he Can't help her with buisness money ,knowing fully well she needed the help ..
They both quarreled on phone and for 3weeks she stopped picking his calls and even stoped replying his chats or messages ,
He later decided to go visit her at her school because he got worried too .

Well the situation turned to something else when he showed up at her apartment that very friday night,
He got there very late and it was not the first time he was visiting her anyways,
because she lives alone her own room was kind of separate and it was 11pm at night,
On getting there he knocked', it took some time for her to open the door for him and when she did she was actually shocked to see him.

Well she refused to let him enter the room and she appeared to be scared and bothered , he only said he wanted to come check on her and since it was late he will just spend the night and be going back the next morning ..
Then the shocking thing happened, one cute light skinned guy grabbed her waist from behind and said," baby who is that person that is disturbing us by this time of the night"..
Like she quickly shoved him off from her side and hurriedly rushed out from the room ..
The cute fair guy was just on boxer and he was shirtless too..
Like the guy was speechless and confused,
He wasnt expecting her to keep any guy over night even if she wants to cheat self ..
Like..
It was more like a dream to him , because its same girl that wakes him up with prayers every mornin and before they sleep she gets to call him for them to pray too ..

Just like that he left that night and she just told the other guy to live her room ,and he watched how that guy moved from her room to another room probably it was his because he has the key to the room.

Well she called the next day to explain and apologise and said she if he wants to end the relationship she won't blame him because she feels quilty,ashamed and bad for what she did.
She said she regrets what she did and it will hunt her for the rest of her life because she feels ungrateful and it might be better they break up because she cant face him again especially after what he witnessed.
It turns out that
the other guy was the one that gave her the half of the money for her project and it was there they both got close.
That very day her boyfriend came unaware, was the day she actually allowed the guy to stay and one thing lead to another and they slept together,

Now this guy is still considering if he needs to end things and move on because even the engagement ring he planned to give her self was on hold.
He wants to think about if it is really worth it to even continue or end things with her as she wanted him to.