WE #145: A girl that has a fire in her soul (Beauty or Brain?)
I'll be honest with you. I used to be one of those women who was very insecure about their face and whole body. Being beautiful is one of the most important aspects of living as some people will say.
When I was in my teenage years, I was bullied relentlessly by my classmates because they thought I resembled a bulldog. I recall the man who said that to me. And as a result of his hate comment towards me, I became very insecure about my appearance, believing that the reason people didn't pay attention to me was because I wasn't beautiful.
As time goes by, our skin features change and because of adolescence and hormonal changes, my classmates thought that I had made changes to my face. I could tell how much better I looked from a few years ago. But FYI, I never really had my face done and all I did was to follow some skin treatment using different facial products.
And now, I can say that I am really beautiful. But if there is a choice between these two; Beauty or Brain, I would choose being brainy. In today's world, everyone is becoming more accepting, and different types of skin features are becoming more standard. To summarize, everyone can now define what true beauty is. It is not important to me to be attractive in the eyes of others. People in my society are starting to admire women who are geniuses and know a lot about different things, based on what I see. I believe that people are liked not because of their appearance, but because of what they can do to make those around them proud.
For the record, I also asked my partner what he liked about me at first. He honestly told me that a woman's beauty is just a plus for him. But the first thing he looks for in a woman is how she respects herself, her moral values, and how she interacts with others. He considers the various types of women to be date-to-marry. In general, I could also state that some other guys still wants to be with a genius woman. So that's why for me, it is better to be brainy and have more pimples on your face than a smooth face, but know nothing about discovering a life or raising a family.
So the question is, am I the standard?
Without a doubt, YES! 💁
~Thanks for reading! This will be my entry for the 145th weekend-engagements here in Hive. Thanks @galenkp for creating the topics! ❤️🥰
Seriously, bulldog? Duhh, I'll punch anyone just to have the shape of your face, your teeth, smile and your eyebrow my gosh, I want all of that huhu. Perfect talaga ng kilay ay ngipin mo. Same sa nose cute huhu. You are really pretty, tyat's the truth.
Ito ako hahahahahaha ayan napa halungkat tuloy ako fb ko from year 2011 ata to haha lol, pangit ako super kaya they thought na nagpaayos ako. Like duhh, pang foods nga wala ako eh 😂
Nadaan lang tlga sa ponds ituuu pramis. 😅
Is this you?
Yess that's me a few years ago 😂
And they called you names?
Those people are mean
Yessss they really did. They even questioned my nose. Huhu 🙄😢
Yeah. Some people are just like that. But it's okay now, we have different lives now. I no longer value them. 🥱
Looks like you're both, so you have no worries. 😊
Glad I have these two. 🌻❤️ But if there is only one thing to choose, I'd rather keep a healthy and genius brain.
You deserve a hug and an Oscar for this post🤗
I can relate to everything in your post but for me I was termed “skinny” that messed with my confidence but over time I had to accept that I wasn’t gonna get fat anytime soon and I started eating right and I added just a few pounds and yes my confidence level grew because I kept on reminding myself of how smart I am and it worked like magic
It was a good read @usagidee
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Awww thank you sweetie! @ibbtammy 🌻❤️
I'd been call out as skinny as well. Some people are just so mean. If you get fat, they will still questioned it. 🙄
Hugs sis, always accept yourself! Embrace your own beauty! I love you! 🌻🌻
Exactly and that’s what I am doing
I love you too sis 😃
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You are beautiful believe it physical beauty is ephemeral that can be corrected but not being intelligent, reading your publication I notice that you have both qualities beautiful and intelligent,
That's so mean, he killed your confidence with his poor choice of words. Sorry about that.
You are beautiful 🥰by the way I like your smile
Some people can be mean. I bet the guy who called you such would be wishing he can take his mean words back because look at you 😍
And I believe you're both - beauty and brainy :)
I love this for you!!! Keep channeling this wonderful energy because you radiate beauty 😍