Me And My Kids Dreams

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Hello everyone my name is @usagigallardo015 im a mother of four beautiful kid's, and today I will tell you about me as a blogger, and me as a full time mom.

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I was just 17 when I gave birth to my eldest daughter it was year 2006 call this a mistake, but having another mistake will never helped to clear things up. I'd never thought of aborting her even my mom does, now I just said what if I obey her maybe I'm not happy and because we can't turned back time I can tell that I'm blessed to have this kids specially my eldest.

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Last September 29, she just turned 16 but she is mature to handle things above her age. She always helped me with the house chores, I remember she was so young but she's willing to learn she also cried because she commit a mistake she knew she will be punish by her dad but I didn't let that to happen instead I taught her that this is the right way so she won't be afraid of trying it again. And she did with her both eyes opened
She's now in grade 11 planning to take Information Technology and we'll going to make her dreams come true. Because she's the eldest her growing stage is quite different from her other siblings she has the plan to rebuild our house, she even asked don't we have any plans to leave the water world. The hardships we been through she dearly wants to replace it with the good ones.

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After four years year 2010 I gave birth to a new family member our unico Ijo and I named him after his fathers name. My husband was totally happy because we already have one girl and one boy as we also look forward to a fruity full life. But it never did we sometimes suffer the shortage of milk to our kids. But those shortcomings it only proves that we are more stronger to overcome it all.

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He plans to be a soldier before but as he grew into a responsible man our house seems to be his training camp. His body built was too much for a 12 year old kid because his our boat driver he Paddle mostly. But his dreams is much bigger than the river he now wants to go to other countries where he planned to be rich and also wants to help us feel comfortable to our lives. He also makes jokes to our wrecked television, when the time comes he'll brought me a brand new and I'll just make it a toy. And I'm just touched by how young they are but their dreams are so big like the ocean.

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(Photo taken on my in-laws house)

Next is my borrowed son and I'll be discussing it later but me and my husband is his true parents. Year 2015 after 24 hours of labour I finally gave birth 3.4 kilos the midwife only pushed this young man I thought of dying in that moment. My sister In law is more older than me and he only planned to borrow my son but as the years went by he owe it her own. Because she's still single till now, but my son can go home here whenever we want for the meantime my in-laws have no other company so we let them have Jj. (Jj is my third son his name has also the named of his father.) JJ has a better life in my in-laws he had the life that his other siblings doesn't have.

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My son was so loved and his dreams is to become a chef so he could mixed all feelings so no one will missed understand. I was really hurt before because no matter how hard life it is I'd never want to give my son. But as I said his just one paddle away and he can go home and I know he'll always remember to come back home for us.

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And she is my Last child
Months ago i already introduced her here in this wonderful community. Year 2019 May 31 is the schedule of my cesarean section with Tubal Ligation, the pain was crazy as I thought that having this operation is a whole comfortable than the normal delivery. The Anesthesia I was numb like a disabled for how many days I walked wearing only diaper because they hardly remove my catheter. I can't eat drink and the most I can't even hold her it was hard really hard even the recovery period was crazy. But it's all part of me now as I walked gently to overcome each period.

The Essence of a woman is how she can share her life with her kids, share her own blood and flesh just to give their life.

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I don't know her dreams because she's just a three year old bundle of joy of our family. But she complete me as woman because the stages that was hard it went all easy because I got the chance to share it all with you.
She is our stress reliever one look of her smiling face will release my tiredness and replenish my strength.

They are our treasure we know that one day they'll need to leave us because it's the way to reach their dreams and goal and I'll wait for them to come back because our hearts is connected to each other they'll always find a way back to us.
thankyou so much for your wonderful reading
Love, @usagigallardo015 🌙


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I hope your children's dreams will come true sis!

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Ganda yan Sis liit pa sila may dream na sila, makapag motivate sa kanila. Prayers sent to this young minds to follow their dreams...

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Life has its ups and downs and you've actually crossed high and low waters more often whenever typhoons comes. Just hold on to each other and maintain a harmonious life. Problems arise inside the four corners of your house but don't let it defeat your love for each other and the unconditional love for your kids. Stay strong. Laban lang:)

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You are such a good woman, Your dream will become true.

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