Back againπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒ


So it's been like decades since my last post on hive😁 lazy right?πŸ˜‚πŸ’”.
I felt so away and most times felt bad that I could make a post for a month and some day.
So while I was away a lot happened while I was away. So I will share some of them in details.

**Firstly I had a new baby yea a baby, a baby but not mineπŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ˜‚. It was a family friend of ours, after waiting for several years after her marriage, she had a lot of miscarriages, some nearly took her life and she gave up completely but it happened that she took in again and was safe till delivery .




Every body had high hopes on this pregnancy as well as prayers were made for the safety of both the mother and child and some people prayed for multiple babies because she was healthy and her tummy was extra large but unfortunately for their expectations it was just one healthy and plumpy boy
so she has been with us through out May till June and she just left of recent.
soy schedule was so tight, I barely had time for myself,my routine was to take care of the mother and baby, and yes it was through C's so she could barely so a thing for herself for some couple of weeks. I had to make breakfast as early as possible, prepare water and another essentials for them before getting ready to work. After work, I love for private tutorials and I literally get home around 7pm then make dinner for the whole house before I retire to bed and so on.

Also the baby and the mother were undergoing the traditional fattening room experience, in which they will be massaged and given special treatment.

Early in the morning before the baby takes his bath he will be massaged and moulded with local powder known as "Ndom" In ibibio same with the mother, this process for two weeks make the baby and the mother look so healthy and chubby. It is not necessary especially for the plus sized.

I barely had time for my self and I couldn't do most things for myself including laundryπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ’”πŸ˜‚. But upon the stress I gained a lot of weight. first time in my stressed life instead of emmanciating, I was healthy, and some people said It was because of the baby 😜.




Also throughout the month we had large catering services for different occasions during the weekends even today as well.

Also my neighbor and I got into a platform on the net in which we had to make tradings every two hours for 24hrs we were up to six that engaged in it and we gained a lot and some lost and still hoping the platform comes back again. Well that period I learnt a lot and would like to share few tips in my next post.
Meanwhile I am on midterm break. The work load for the term has been so bulky because the holidays and breaks are too much and we are not able to cover up a lot of work. This is week 8 already and we barely have up to 6 more weeks till the closing of the term.

So now the baby is gone and that particular work load is relieved.


All shots were taken with my phone.


Congratulations to the family of the new born, best wishes. It's great that you're writing here on Hive again, welcome back