Serving As A Mediator | Things Didnt Went As Planned

Serving as a mediator or a middle man at times isn't the right thing to do or getting involved in even though it isn't a good thing seeing two or more people involved in argument and just be looking at them without separating them or doing something to stop their disagreement. There is this staying that An angry man is a mad man which is really true because when you are in that kind of situation, you might not know what you might do at that moment and you might destroy things or hurt someone. More reason while I do wish everything is balanced, that we just have this kind of life to do the right thing without any disagreement, fight whatsoever but that is not possible, the world we live in is unbalanced and we have to accept that.

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I really dont like seeing anyone am close with (friends or family) having a dispute or being a violence person, I do distance myself away from such person after what I experienced, It happened a long time ago when I had this friend who is every girl spec and cute, you know this kind of guys when it come to relationship, they always find it very hard to focus on a girl or be faithful mostly because they have lot of girls flocking around them. They always want to eat their cake and still have it, I mean have a main girl yet cheat secretly, I wasn't in support of the behaviour and I do advice him to stop because no matter how you cheat secretly on your girl, it will get leaked one day but according to him, Life is too short and he need to enjoy every bit of it.

They use to say Everyday is for the thief but one day is for the owner and I actually wished I wasn't presence that very day, That my friend was indoor as usual with a girl (side chic) when his main girl who was having the feeling that the guy is cheating on her, came uninvited and caught my friend with his side chic indoor, she was really vexed, confront my friend and his side chic and before we know it, one thing lead to another and they start fighting. I had to come to his rescue when the matter was getting out of hand, the girl pick up a wood to hit him and mistakenly hit me on the head. It wasn't a funny moment because I don't know what happened later. It was as if they off the light and they had to pour water on me.

I had to bear the pain for days and my guy had to break up with the girl, I blamed him for not been faithful and if he had listen, thing wont have been like this, since then I will rather stay away when people fight than get involved or help them call people that can separate them. Once bitten, twice shy