Pressure Makes Me More Mature

hello everyone, greetings to all of us, I hope you are always given health and always under the protection of the Almighty, for today I will again try to participate in weekly content which this time is the 48th week of the last edition this week, of course with a very interesting topic in each issue.

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In an increasingly developing world like today, of course pressure can easily come from anywhere so that it makes us a little depressed with this situation, which if the pressure is too heavy we ourselves cannot accept the pressure, thus making us depressed even to the point of certain, namely high fear makes us crazy, Pressure also comes regardless of age, Starting from children, teenagers to the elderly, of course, they will always be under pressure according to the environment around them.

pressure also occurs a lot at work, where we are required to always be able to achieve targets, for me this is a big pressure because we don't have many choices for it, on the one hand we are very stressed and on the other hand we need money sometimes many feel resigned with incidents like this, I really prioritize the comfort of working, even though the salary is not too big but we get the comfort we need.

For myself, the pressure of life is something that often arises when there is a change that happens to us, such as a change in status in the family, where we were just a child, now we decide to establish a new family where we will become fathers and of course the pressure that we also feel different, pressure can come from anywhere, from the social environment, the economy, being haunted by the past and even to the point that the pressure of considering ourselves useless can only make it difficult for other people, from some of these pressures not everyone will also be able to accept the pressure it by finding a way out,

but there are also many who continue to drag on under this pressure, I can say that everyone who lives on this earth has felt the pressure, but getting out of the pressure will make us more mature because maturity is not always seen from age but many are also matured By the way, I myself have been under some pressure in the past year, here are some of the pressures I've been under

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we often hear the words of some people who are over twenty-five years old who are under pressure with the question, when are you going to get married? I think this is a simple statement but has a meaning that makes us always think about it, thank God I have gone through that and have decided to get married 3 months ago so the pressure that I am facing now is from the economy and I feel like a burden to my in-laws,

At the beginning of marriage, of course, there were so many things that we had to buy for the necessities of life, from several items and also several items to fulfill our daily life so that I could not control my expenses and became a burden every time I thought about expenses every day, because I do not have a salary every month and even income is not too big

one month ago I was also blessed with a son and of course I always have to prepare expenses for diapers and milk, you could say my economic pressure is increasing but I always enjoy every process, because the burden I carry is getting bigger I now have to work harder and look for side jobs whenever I have free time, one of which is that I now sell some ready-to-eat food such as grilled meatballs, grilled tofu and some drinks so it really helps my economy, which does require big expenses.

actually the feeling that I am experiencing is a natural thing where we are just trying to live and enter into a new family, I have to adjust a lot of adjustments, and of course it makes us all uncomfortable, but over time I started to adjust to my new family , and try to help every one of my in-laws have a job so that my heart is a little relieved and the feeling of burden that is in me is a little less, if indeed there is sustenance maybe one way to get out of this problem is to have my own home and I have planned it but I have to wait for my son to be a bit bigger.

those are some things that I can write for the content of this edition, and I apologize if there are some mistakes in my writing because I use the google translate tool, if you want to enter a contest like me, you can directly see the following post @kronias